Do you know who gets the most attention from men? Not at all the most beautiful, but the one whose look and movements radiate kindness, sincerity and a share of coquetry.
Here she enters: gracefully turns her head, looks around at everyone from under half-lowered eyelashes, smiles charmingly, straightens a curl that has inadvertently come out from under her hair ...
All eyes are on her because she is fluent in her body language, she is the queen of flirting.
Most of the information, namely 55%, is transmitted by a person using body language. Going somewhere, do not forget about some of the signs that attract men so much.
LION'S MANE
Shake your head so that your hair falls nicely over your shoulders.
The demonstration of lion-cat habits is a combination of grace with soft, exciting aggression, which perfectly turns on the opposite sex.
LET THE PEN
A decent gentleman kisses a woman's hand with outer side. But if he has any views on the lady, then, looking into her eyes, he turns her hand and touches her wrist with his lips.
Try to show him your wrists in the most advantageous way. For example, during a conversation, make a few gestures with your hand in his direction, trying to open your wrists. If you are sitting with your face in your hands, turn your hands so that he can see exactly them. inner part. Great if you wear bracelets. Thin and massive, ringing and iridescent, they are designed to attract men's eyes.
SHOOTING EYES
It is with the help of a glance that many women successfully meet men.
There are several options for a charming look:
- Among the many views, the most attractive psychologists consider "the look of modest Dee," as the press dubbed it. tilting your head to the side, look at the interlocutor through half-lowered eyelashes. A look like this makes men want to get to know a woman better in order to support and protect this gentle and reverent person.
- Another option is to slightly lower your eyelids, look at the man until he notices the look, and then quickly look away (for special flirting virtuosos, you can also blush a little). It gives a mesmerizing peeping sensation and a tantalizing hint that you are being surreptitiously watched.
- A sideways glance from behind a raised shoulder is often used in commercials because it attracts male attention.
- An intimate look is ideal when the acquaintance has already taken place, but it has not yet come to a date. Look at him and then lower your eyes to his chin, lips, neck and collarbone. The most daring can go below the shoulder line.
WELL SITTING
When you are sitting, you have a great opportunity to get his attention. Lean back freely in a chair, cross your legs and let the shoe hang freely on the toes of the foot, swaying nonchalantly in different directions. It is wonderful if the ankles of the legs are still exposed, which attract men no less than women's wrists.
And most importantly, before we can please others, we must be pleased with ourselves. To do this, it is enough to live with positive emotions. And then the gait will become more confident, the smile will be sincere, and the sparkle in the eyes will be brighter! Learn to feel beautiful every day.
LESSONS OF PERFECTION
If you do not have a relationship with the mirror, there is a reason to think about your own attitude:
- Pay attention to your demeanor. Movements and gestures loving person restless and free. And do not forget to keep the spine straight - the "antenna" of our mood.
- Smile more often! When we laugh, all facial muscles rest, emotional tension decreases.
- Don't get bogged down in your past. Living in yesterday, you deprive yourself not only of the future, but also of the present.
- Find yourself a hobby. Having achieved success in something, you will begin to be proud of yourself and become more confident.
- Don't dwell on your physical flaws. Most of them are invisible to others.
One of the greats said that “the eyes are the mirror of the soul” and turned out to be completely right. A person always tries to pay attention to how other people look at him. After all, with the help of a glance, you can find out about the thoughts of the interlocutor and understand the hints of a silent person. For some reason, this is rarely written about in the press and the Internet, and studies on the interpretation of different views cannot be found anywhere. In this article I will try to reveal the essence of this issue as fully as possible.
What is the look?
Under the look of a person is meant a characteristic of the location of the eyes and some parts of the face located nearby. These include the forehead, skin, eyebrows, eyelids, and in some cases the nose and lips.
Are the eyes the mirror of the soul?
The look may be different, but each of its options has one thing in common - it is a reflection inner world person, his character and mood. For the most part, the type of look depends on the latter.
All positive or negative inner experiences of a person are expressed in her gaze. For this reason, if you need to give it a certain meaning, you should not try to do it with “technical” methods, it is better to concentrate on your inner mood and the desired expression of the eyes will arise by itself.
The interlocutor will not be able to consciously understand the whole essence of your look and explain its meaning for himself, but on a subconscious level, a person reads a certain message from your eyes and he will have a corresponding reaction to your emotional state projected through the look.
How to influence the interlocutor with a glance
From the foregoing, the conclusion follows: you can work out for yourself a certain scheme of psychological influence on the interlocutor with the help of a glance.
- Determine the goal you want to achieve during the conversation.
- Tune yourself in a certain way to cause the state that will be projected in your gaze.
- Look your interlocutor in the eye.
- As a result, you will see his response.
The subconscious of your counterpart will work instantly and he will only have to choose options for action on your emotional message.
The look of a person is a powerful tool that can impress any interlocutor. It can charm, it can attract or reject, it enhances the possibility of manipulative influence. Negativity directed at a person can be neutralized by him. Magnetic, odic, central - these are all characteristics of that very strong gaze that only a few have.
Everyone met people who, with their resolute, concentrated, almost unbearable gaze, "driving into a corner" because it seemed that a person sees through us. Such people can subjugate anyone, they are familiar with the power that an ordinary eye can have.
Psychology may not understand the mechanisms of influence of a look on a person, but numerous studies show that there is such an impact. For example, an experiment was conducted in which participants with their eyes closed were asked to feel someone else's gaze from the back. And in most cases, this was determined accurately.
It is believed that a look can send a thought wave to the interlocutor directly to the brain. In this case, you should look at the bridge of your nose, where the eyebrows converge. This is where the nerve center is located. In Eastern philosophy, there is a "third eye". Desires, feelings or commands sent to this center will be surely perceived if the gaze has that very power. To give the eye special properties, you need to develop certain skills.
Development of the power of the gaze
Training is required to develop the required skills. They will develop their skills, and after a while the result will be noticed: the interlocutors will begin to behave a little differently during the conversation, requests of any plan will increasingly be fulfilled unquestioningly.
Afghan girl Sharbat Gula
Exercise with a sheet of paper
Take a sheet of white paper, preferably thick. Draw a circle with a diameter of 3 cm in its center with a black felt-tip pen and fix it on the wall so that it is at eye level. Next, you should sit opposite this circle at a distance of 1 meter and peer into the center, focusing your eyes. Do not blink or look away for one minute. Concentration is required: it is very important to imagine that energy or a beam is coming from the eyes. After a short rest, you can do a few more of these approaches.
Then you need to move the sheet a meter to the left and look at it without turning your head (with peripheral vision) for 1 minute. Hang the paper a meter to the right, look with peripheral vision in that direction. The exercise is repeated several times.
It is desirable to perform these exercises every day, and when they become easy (usually after 4-5 days), you should increase the exercise time to 2 minutes per approach. Then reduce the approaches to one, prolonging the execution. Ultimately, you need to ensure that the concentration of vision is not lost for 15 minutes at a time. Exercise will help develop a strong look.
Blue-eyed African boy
Using a mirror
Set up a mirror in front of you and peer into the reflection of your own eyes. Then you need to draw on the mirror, between the eyebrows, a small dot and look at it. You should act according to the principle of the first exercise, increasing the peering time to 15 minutes per approach. This exercise will help you withstand the strong gaze of others and sharpen your own gaze.
More advanced eye exercises
There are more complex exercises that can be performed only after completing one of the previous ones:
- A sheet of paper, the same as in the first exercise, is attached to the wall. You need to stand near the wall at a distance of 1 meter so that the circle is at eye level. The gaze is fixed on a point, and the head is made in circular movements clockwise, and then, after 1 minute, counterclockwise. You can't get out of the circle. This is how the optic nerves develop and the muscles of the eyes are strengthened.
- You should stand with your back to the wall, look at the other wall, which is in front. The gaze is translated left-right, up-down, zigzag, in circles. Each option is one minute long. This exercise will strengthen your eye muscles.
- The exercise requires a candle. It is necessary to light it, sit opposite so that it stands between straightened arms. You need to look at the flame without taking your eyes off for 1 minute with 3 repetitions. Energy waves from the flame will convey strength, severity, fill the look with warmth. In this exercise, energy is not given, but received.
Each of the exercises will strengthen the look, ultimately give confidence, rigidity, steadfastness. It is important not to squint, look straight, eyelids do not expand very much. If the eyes get tired when performing, they can be washed cold water for a quick break.
This look lasts depending on the situation. Most often, you should not look extremely closely and for a long time at the interlocutor. You need a calm and confident look that will make you obey.
You should not use the acquired skills for evil purposes, because evil returns like a boomerang.
The magic of the look
A magical look is considered a gift that appears from birth. Most likely, it cannot be learned, it can only be possessed. Some people do not realize how powerful a tool they have under their control. The magical look is fully used by clairvoyants, healers, sorcerers.
It is lucky if the magical look is directed at a person with good positive energy, a desire to help. But it negatively affects the state of a person if they begin to scan him, pump out energy, want to harm, jinx or spoil. But you can protect yourself from it if you learn to resist the flow of negative energy.
Exercises for the development of protective properties:
- A black dot is drawn on a sheet of paper. The sheet is hung at eye height. You need to step back 2 meters and look at the point without blinking for as long as possible until your eyes get tired. Then you should stop the exercise, rest for a couple of minutes. When performing, it is important to imagine an evil look, other people's eyes that can do harm. The main thing is to inspire yourself when doing the exercise that no one can harm with a glance, that is, damage. It is important to see the thin threads that connect the gaze with this point on the wall and understand that these threads do not harm, but only protect against adverse influences.
- The exercise will allow you to quickly take away the energy that someone has taken. A white candle is placed on the table and lit. It is required to sit in front of her and with an instant glance try to take the energy of fire, and then give it back. The exercise is repeated several times and ends at the stage of taking energy.
Some facts
- A lingering gaze between men can be interpreted as aggression, so be careful.
- If a man and a woman look intently at each other and the woman is the first to look away, then the position of subordination to this man is fixed in her.
- If a woman is not indifferent to a man, this can be determined by her dilated pupils. However, do not confuse this with a reaction to the lack of lighting.
Communication between people is carried out not only with the help of verbal symbols, but also with the help of gestures, gaze, facial expressions, body position
When a person feels sympathy, it is difficult not to notice, and it is non-verbal signals that can indicate interest. The look of a man in love is a universal “marker” that is difficult to fake. The eyes of a person are able to show what cannot be said in words. A woman who knows how to understand the intricacies of non-verbal signals is able to accurately determine whether a certain man feels sympathy for her or not.
What can a look say?
The eyes are the mirror of the soul, which means they are able to show a lot, especially the feelings and emotions that the individual is experiencing at the moment. When falling in love, a whole range of changes occur in the human body, which can even be recorded using a blood test. An increase in the level of endorphin hormones leaves a special imprint on behavior and physical reactions. These substances cause an increase in heart rate, euphoria, a feeling of happiness and their effects cannot be overlooked. What can a man's eyes say, and is it worth paying attention to?
Important. Not every eye contact means love and interest. At today's pickup courses, men are taught many tricks that are aimed at deceiving a potential partner, including controlling their senses.
It is impossible to evaluate a glance separately from other non-verbal expressions, since it is easy to be deceived, especially if you are dealing with a trained pick-up artist. In order not to get into such a situation, pay attention to:
- Holding on. A guy in love, in most cases, behaves confidently, but does not show aggression or arrogance. The stronger sex seeks to show itself in all its glory, however, an interested guy will not allow himself to be too active.
- Facial expressions and gestures. The discrepancy between the view and actions can speak of deceit. For example, if the posture is closed, and the eyes speak of sympathy, then most likely you should not rush and draw unambiguous conclusions.
However, in most cases, the eyes do not deceive, and one can easily judge the presence or absence of sympathy from them. It is enough to know what to pay attention to.
Signs of a man in love
Due to psychophysiological changes in the body of the stronger sex, sympathy is actively manifested externally. The look of a guy in love is characterized by the following features:
- Direction. A man in love with genuine interest peers into the eyes and face of the object of desire. Catches every movement, does not lose sight of any detail.
- duration. As a rule, friendly eye contact is short, friendly. If a guy holds his eyes on a woman for more than 5 seconds, then we can say that he has fallen in love.
- Pupil size. When sympathy occurs, endorphins are released. The heartbeat quickens and the pupils dilate. The effect of "bottomless" eyes is a direct indication that a person is experiencing strong feelings. If the pupils remain small, and the man at the same time crumbles in compliments, you know, most likely, he is just flirting or wants to intimacy and no more.
- Attention. The representative of the stronger sex, in most cases, fixes his eyes on the interlocutor he likes during his speech, trying to catch a hint of reciprocity of feelings. When a woman speaks, he is dispersed, wandering.
On a note. Most men cannot remember the first conversation with the object of passion, he simply does not remember what the conversation was about. But she can accurately describe the outfit of the companion, her facial features, figure, voice timbre and behavior.
View types
Knowing what the eyes of the stronger sex express, you can avoid mistakes and not build illusions about the seriousness of intentions where they simply do not exist. The look of an interested guy might be:
- lovers;
- flirtatious;
- intimate.
If the representative of the stronger sex fell in love, then his eyes are looking for eye contact with the girl. He can look at the face for a long time, only casually touching the figure. He is gentle, kind, caring. His whole being seems to be waiting for confirmation of the reciprocity of feelings. The pupils are dilated, it can be seen even in bright light.
When a man flirts, his eyes don't drop below his face. If he has not yet decided on his intentions for a woman, then the behavior will be flirtatious, easy.
An intimate look is fixed on the figure, casually touching the face. It means that a man regards a woman only as an object of sexual desire. His behavior can be bold, defiant. At the same time, the pupils are most often dilated, which indicates his desire to quickly move on to closer contact.
By the way. Teachers at the University of Texas conducted an experiment during which they managed to prove the selectivity of men. So, when choosing a permanent partner or future spouse, more than 80% of the subjects focused on the facial features of women, and when choosing a sexual object, their eyes were attracted only to the figure.
For women, the most desirable is a loving look. However, if a man really likes, but on his part the girl notices only sexual desire, you should not assume that you can drastically influence the situation. He has already decided everything for himself, and it will be very difficult to change his mind.
How to respond to a man's loving gaze
If you notice that the representative of the stronger sex does not take his eyes off you and the sympathy is mutual, you should proceed to decisive action. Long gone are the days when modesty was considered an adornment of a girl. Of course, it is not necessary to behave cheekily and vulgarly, this will only repel a man who feeds tender feelings. He is waiting for confirmation of the reciprocity of feelings, and a woman can show this using the following techniques:
- Establish long eye contact and at the same time quickly move your eyes to your lips, linger on them for a while and look into your eyes again. This method makes the man understand that he is more than handsome and the woman considers him as a candidate for the role of a partner.
- Shoot with your eyes. To do this, “catch” his gaze, linger on it for a few seconds and turn away. This will allow the man to understand that the girl is ready for action on his part and is waiting for them.
- Use gestures and touch actively. Prolonged eye contact and the touch of the hand will do more than spoken words.
If a man does not arouse sympathy and desire in a woman to start a relationship, then you should not maintain eye contact with him and respond to his loving look. In this state, he can take even a friendly wink as a signal for action and begin to conquer the girl against her wishes.
Most men do not know how to hide their loving eyes. This makes it easy to understand what feelings he has for this or that representative of the fair sex. The eyes are hard to deceive, especially if they are complemented by other non-verbal signs of sympathy. Fall in love with a man who is interested easily, in time and correctly respond to the signals he broadcasts.
