How to understand that a guy friend fell in love. You are sure that a man is in love with you, but how to understand this if he hides his feelings

Sometimes it's hard to understand, especially at the very beginning of a relationship, does the partner really have feelings? If yes, what is their scale? Men usually try not to show emotions, and without this it is sometimes unclear to us whether he is in love or just having a good time. In fact, it is possible to determine whether he has feelings if you pay attention to some features of his behavior.

How does a man's love begin?

First, out of many women, one is reflexively selected. The man's gaze clings to her, something immediately explodes in his head, an increased amount of testosterone is released into the blood. In just a fraction of a second, a young man manages to imagine himself with her in a restaurant, and on a walk in the park, and in bed, and even in the registry office.

Someone goes further and imagines common children and a happy old age together. But at the same time, consciously, a man may not at all be going to marry the person he likes. It's just that his psyche is so arranged: it instantly scans everything possible options developing a relationship with someone who seems more attractive than others.

When a woman is chosen, she automatically becomes the center of interest for her potential suitor. No, he still does not feel any special tenderness for the object of increased attention, nor the desire to protect, help and care. His thoughts are still occupied, mainly, with pressing matters. But the process of falling in love has already begun. It is impossible to stop him. At first, it's not very noticeable. Already hooked by the hooligan Venus, the young man behaves almost the same as before. He devotes time to work, hobbies, friends. And then…

Then, suddenly, many actions of such a seemingly purposeful, collected, serious and by no means inclined to lyrics men begin to resemble the behavior of a naughty teenager. He can forget about an important matter, carry funny nonsense during a business conversation, be rude to his boss, show up in his office in strange clothes, etc.

For example, a still restrained intellectual suddenly tries to fight with someone or climbs into a fountain to swim. And the boorish, not giving anyone a descent type jumps into an elegant suit, hangs a tie around his neck and begins to recite poetry.

If a man is already seriously in love, the mind loses control, thoughts cease to obey the mind - anarchy walks in the soul. As a result, the most important thing is the desire to see the object of love as often as possible. Everything else, work, hobbies, meetings with friends, fades into the background. The main thing is to be closer to your passion, meet eyes, hear her voice, inhale the scent of perfume, touch.

If a young man is in the same company with the woman he fell in love with, he tries to show his best side. Moreover, the concept of this “better side” is different for everyone. Someone is sure that women like financial tycoons, and ostentatiously emphasizes their importance in the business world. Another believes that they must be conquered by wit, and releases all sorts of jokes and puns in place and out of place. The third tries to bribe the girl with flattery and lavishes compliments. And there are men who demonstrate ferocity and brandish their fists for any reason in the belief that the weaker sex loves only the strong.

The behavior of a man in love can be compared with the behavior of a peacock spreading its tail when a female appears. He tries to show off his mind, pulling out once read quotes and aphorisms from the far corners of his memory, talks about his exploits and victories, plays his muscles, puts on airs.

He tries to look better than he is. In general, when young people are in love and want to please a girl, they often choose three typical images to present themselves.

The image of a merry fellow

This type is trying to hit a woman on the spot with inexhaustible wit. He tells endless jokes and constantly jokes. Moreover, in everyday life this person is gloomy, sometimes it is difficult to squeeze out even a semblance of a smile from him. And the role he diligently plays when courting is not easy for him. All his wit is based on many hours of memorizing jokes and anecdotes, which now our merry fellow cheerfully flaunts. And it turns out so easily thanks to hormones that spurred brain receptors.

The image of romance

This is a man with a subtle nature, who knows how to appreciate the beautiful. He admires nature, the surrounding landscape, rain, sunset. And he does it as if by chance, as if for himself. In fact, such phrases are intended, of course, for the one whose heart you want to win. For greater effect, the romantic in front of her admires some theatrical performances, paintings, sculptures, literary works. But it is quite likely that he had never been to the theater either, and had never seen good painting, and had not read any books, except for textbooks and technical aids. All this is fiction, but for her, for her, beloved! You have to get the lady to do something.

Image of a cynic

The cynic is cold, pragmatic and treats everything with causticity. It seems to be. In fact, such a man can be a shy, insecure person. And he put on an arrogant cheeky look on himself in order to interest the girl. They say that everything in the world is indifferent to me and no one will ever break through this wall of indifference. This is like a challenge to a person who, according to the man, should accept it.

What are men afraid of

I must say that among the stronger sex there are many good psychologists who accurately feel what type of women they are dealing with, and automatically adjust to this type. Therefore, the role played by a lover is often effective.

An interested girl is already ready for an invitation to a date, agrees to give her phone number, expects him to take her home. But... nothing happens. A man whose feeling burns with a bright flame does not offer to meet, does not ask for a phone number and does not see him off. What's the matter?! Yes, he is simply afraid! And he is afraid the more, the more serious his intentions.

It would seem, what is there to be afraid of? A woman is not a fire-breathing dragon or a tiger; and there is nothing wrong with calling her to a restaurant or a club. It turns out there is. After all, she can refuse, and this is a blow below the belt. More precisely, a blow to pride, which is one of the most painful for men. Therefore, even burning with love, they will rush about, doubt, suffer before taking a decisive step towards rapprochement. And the stronger the love, the more difficult this step is given.

But how then to be a girl who is no longer seriously interested in such a timid man? Wait? What if he lingers for years? So after all, you can not wait at all! So, you need to take the initiative yourself. However, activity in matters of the heart should be shown only if there is confidence in male interest. Otherwise, you will surely get into a mess or get the stigma of an obsessive, completely devoid of self-esteem person.

Cynicism, romanticism, the brilliance of a man's wit cannot be the basis for the appearance of such confidence. A person is also by nature a cynic, a merry fellow or a romantic. How does a woman know if this is his natural behavior or a role played for her? It is not worth drawing conclusions by observing the manner of human behavior. And how then to understand that the one with whom you want to be together is really not indifferent? There are several signs of a man's love.

Signs of a man falling in love

If he says “I love you” too easily, then you should watch him more closely. Perhaps he is just a playboy who quickly "falls in love" and quickly loses interest, without thinking about what breaks another heart.

Frankly speaking, if a young man liked some girl, the thought of sex with her is always one of the first in his head. There is nothing terrible in this. Sex is a way of self-affirmation of men, evidence of his masculinity. Sexual desire awakens the hunter's instinct, and he begins to trap prey using everything available ways. He can pretend to be anyone, invent a lot of tricks, spend a lot of time in the company of a woman, just to achieve his goal. But often, seeing reciprocity, he immediately loses interest in the conquered person. It turns out that the desire to possess a girl cannot be evidence of falling in love with her. What then?

He seeks spiritual rapprochement

Having fallen in love, he will need special contact. What is not observed with a banal sexual attraction. A man will seek communication with a young lady, call her, send messages, wait at the entrance, be interested in her problems and talk about himself. Moreover, someone will begin to sing serenades, and someone will express themselves tongue-tied and embarrassed. What can you do, we are all different. But the degree of eloquence in this case is completely unimportant! The main thing is that a person wants not only the touch of bodies, but also the contact of souls. So he's really in love.

He wants to look good

One of the most obvious signs of a man's falling in love is a change in the style of his clothes. If his feelings are serious, he will begin to care about how you like him. A man will quickly change his ordinary clothes, which are more comfortable than beautiful, into fashionable ones. So watch your lover: have there been any changes in his clothes after you started dating? Has he got any new things? Or maybe he tidied up those things that he used to wear so casually? Does it happen that he appears before you unshaven, in wrinkled clothes and uncleaned shoes? Or did he never allow himself such a thing?

Sight

The second sign of a man's love will also betray him with his head. How often do you catch his eye on you, especially when he thinks you're not looking at him? If a man loves you, then he will be drawn to stealthily look at you all the time. He will admire you, and if you nevertheless catch his eye, he will look away and may even be embarrassed.

Support

And how ready is he to support you in difficult times? If you fall into the trap of any kind of emotional, physical, financial or any other problem, does he just watch from the sidelines as you suffer? Or offers to help you? If yes, then this is a good sign. It means he has real feelings for you.

Heart to heart conversations

And if a man speaks evenly and too smoothly, think: maybe he didn’t just tell you this? Perhaps he had already “rehearsed” this story on many listeners? Communicating with his beloved, he will not carefully select beautiful words; on the contrary, feeling relaxed, he will begin to use the same words and jargon that he uses in his circle of friends. Except, of course, obscene phrases! And if he speaks as if he had memorized an exemplary literary language with all its rules, then be on your guard: he is clearly up to something.

Does he share your feelings?

How does he react to your mood? Are you happy when you are happy? Or does he ignite with anger every time he notices that you are angry or just not in the mood? If the latter is true, then this is a bad sign - he is unlikely to have deep feelings for you. When a man loves you, he will do everything possible to make you feel happy.

Getting to know his social circle

Another telltale sign that a man is genuinely feeling is how much he enjoys being with you in front of his friends or co-workers. Definitely, if there is no love, then he will not “introduce” it into his social circle. He would prefer to meet her away from the eyes of his friends and relatives. The reason for this may be that he has someone on the side, and he does not want the other woman to find out about the entertainment in the form of other ladies.

Or he simply does not plan a serious and long-term relationship. If a man does not want to appear with you in front of his acquaintances, then he is most likely just using you to have a good time once or twice. And if during an unexpected meeting he introduces you to his friends as an employee or just an acquaintance, then be careful: there is no love on his part!

sex or love

Sometimes men are guided only by their sexual instincts, starting relationships with girls to satisfy their sexual hunger, and then parting with them without any regret. And if in a relationship with you a man is most interested in sex, then do not be fooled, because he is unlikely to love. Sex is not love, and love is not only sex! A man who has true feelings for a woman will reckon with your emotions and feelings. He will not insist on sex at the very beginning of the relationship and will patiently wait until you yourself are ready for this.

Generosity is not a sign of love

I would like to warn you against a common female mistake in interpreting a man’s actions and clarify: if a man spends a lot of money on you, then this is not an indicator of his love. And there was never any connection between money and a real romantic relationship! A man's gifts do not always mean that he loves a woman. If he buys you expensive things, this does not mean that he is ready to be with you all his life. He just has money to spend, and he spends it.

He shows up on time if you make an appointment with him.

And if he breaks the time, he will not be late, but, on the contrary, will come earlier and will be looking forward to waiting for you. This is a good sign that he is ready to be with you. You never have to wait for him to show up, do you? It means he values ​​spending time together.

He turns off the phone

On a walk, in a cafe, at the cinema or in any other place where you spend your leisure time, he turns off the phone: he does not want to be distracted and does not want to waste time communicating with you. This is a very sure sign of love for you!

He sees his future next to you

Does the beloved make joint plans and say “we will”, “we will have”, etc.? After all, if he loves, he will want to spend his whole life next to you. A man who is confident in his feelings will talk about the possibilities that open up for both of you, and, most likely, will talk about marriage.

He remembers everything

If your companion remembers the date of your first meeting, remembers all the important dates in your life - for example, your birthday - then this is a sign that he loves you.

But do not take it to heart if he cannot remember all the important dates - this is normal for men! Many not only cannot keep the dates of all significant events in their heads, but also sincerely wonder how we manage to do this.

Gallantry

If he does simple things for you that he might not do for someone else - opens doors for you, gives up his chair, gives you a coat - this indicates that he is not indifferent to you.

When a man is in love, he treats his woman like a real queen. Trying to take care of you even in such trifles, he expresses his special attitude towards you. So don't let these little things go unnoticed.

Care

It’s just that good friends also care about each other, but a lover will surround you rather with hyper-care. He will remind you that you need to do some important work, ask if you had lunch, offer your jacket, even if it’s not cold at all outside, and run to brew hot tea with raspberry jam if you just sneezed once.

He tries to spend every weekend together

This speaks volumes! We all live according to a busy schedule, and there is very little free time that we can spend on ourselves. And weekends are the time when there is an opportunity to completely relax and do only what we like the most. And when a man is happy to spend the whole weekend with you, it means that he is in love.

Frankness

Your man trusts you, so he will be frank about himself and his past life. And he will tell not only about what will present him in a favorable light, but also about what he still regrets: about wrong actions or words spoken in vain to someone. Ultimate frankness and sincerity should show you that the feelings of a man directed at you are deep and reverent.

Actions speak for themselves

Men are not as finely organized emotionally as we are, and even when experiencing strong feelings, they cannot always express them in words. But we all know the saying: actions speak louder than the most beautiful words. And indeed it is! Therefore, actions The best way determine if he loves. Do not believe the words, but believe what and how a man does.

Facial expressions and gestures

Pay attention to his gestures, facial expressions, posture. If a man is in love, he will turn his whole body towards you. His legs will be widely spaced, his hands will not fold. With his whole body, a man, as it were, will show that he is reaching out to you, he wants to experience intimacy.

The lover will try in every possible way to touch you, to touch your skin. For example, he may, as if by chance, touch your hand with his. If you go somewhere, he will let you go ahead and lightly take you by the waist.

At the sight of you, a man will smile broadly and sincerely. How can you tell if a smile is genuine? If a person smiles on purpose, then he will show his teeth strongly, and the nasolabial triangle will become tense.

Voice

The voice will become soft and velvety, affectionate, deep and thoughtful. The man will begin to monitor his speech. You will not hear any swear words from him, it is too important for him to make a special impression on you. The words will be gentle and affectionate.

What will he talk about? About anything. Yes, you will certainly notice the efforts to support any topic. Weather? You are welcome! Fashion trends? Too. A man will accept any of your submissions with pleasure.

Usually men like to talk about themselves, about their lives. But being in love is another matter. He will question you. And this interest is genuine, he is really very interested in your life and everything connected with you.

A person who has feelings for you will never interrupt you. He is a grateful and patient listener. He not only listens, but remembers. Yes, he will most likely be able to reproduce all the details of the conversation tomorrow or the day after tomorrow.

How to tell if a man is in love when you haven't met him yet

If there is no relationship yet, you can determine the presence of feelings by the following signs:

• He will act a little strange. Usually a lively, sociable, self-confident young man becomes suddenly shy and timid. And the shy and timid boy suddenly begins to behave cheekily, defiantly piss someone off, be rude, laugh out loud. Moreover, these changes are visible only in the presence of the object of sighing. As soon as the girl disappears, everything returns to normal.
• A man now and then meets your gaze and immediately looks away. In principle, he may not take them away, on the contrary, look intently and defiantly. But this, most likely, is characteristic of skillful seducers, rather than young men who experience sincere feelings. The one who is in love is usually embarrassed when the girl looks into his eyes.
• A man always gets in your way, spinning in those places where you visit, more often appears in a common company. At the same time, he tries to pretend that all these coincidences are random and that he was just passing by. When a young man falls in love, he will find a girl anywhere, sometimes spending a lot of time and effort on it. And will wait for her appearance for hours. So, if someone constantly comes across either on the path, then in the store, then on the way home, then near the entrance, you should pay attention to him. He flickers before his eyes for nothing.

Love Signs of a Guy You're Already Dating

It happens that after some period of relationship, a man begins to behave a little differently than in the first days of courtship. He becomes more restrained, rarely says compliments, more often recalls business. It seems that there is no longer any love, he was disappointed, cooled down and no longer wants to see you as often as before. How can one determine in this case whether a young man has past feelings?

• He seeks to help in some way, tries to solve some problem, is interested in business, brings heavy bags home, tries to give rest if he is tired, and so on. Only a lover would accept this Active participation in the girl's life, demonstrating indifference to her fate. Anyone who is indifferent to a woman will certainly not refuse to help her either. But it's unlikely to do this all the time.
• A man remembers various little things related to the life of his beloved woman. This is the date of birth of the mother, the nickname of the puppy, favorite perfumes, dishes, books and movies - everything that strangers are not interested in.
• He is easily ready to abandon his plans if you need his presence. A man in love often even changes his life priorities and hobbies, wanting to have as much in common with his passion as possible. For example, he used to be convinced that money is more important than anything in the world. And now he considers the most important sincerity and reciprocity of feelings. Or before he was fond of auto racing, but now he began to give preference to hiking, which his beloved likes so much.
• He notices even slight changes in your appearance or mood. The one who is not in love, and the details of the appearance, and especially the mood of the girl are of little interest.
• A man is not afraid to talk about family and children, and even starts such conversations himself. This behavior is usually the case with serious men who want to see a girl as a life partner.
• He tolerates your whims, indulgently treats not very beautiful deeds and forgives a lot. Such endurance is peculiar only to a young man in love.
• Psychologists say that their attitude is manifested in reservations. A phrase thrown by chance often betrays a man in love with a head, because it is not thought out in advance. However, not every spontaneous replica has some hidden meaning. But it is better to note them, highlighting what is especially important, and drawing the right conclusions.

Seven main signs of a man in love

If you notice the following signs, then the man is definitely in love with you:

1. His behavior is changing. A pedant in love can become extremely absent-minded in the presence of his chosen one. For him, the emergence of a new feeling is a surprise. A man does not really want to show his weaknesses surrounded by other people, so he may not “look” at all towards the object of attention. Meanwhile, simple absent-mindedness is capable of betraying him. If a man is a “blunder” in life, in the presence of his beloved, he can, on the contrary, become very collected and extremely cheerful. Friends notice such changes and even “make fun” of the guy, which is perceived by him very painfully.
2. Increased attention to the woman. Even if he does not look at his beloved girl in her presence, he will always be secretly interested in how exactly she spends time, where she is, with whom she is friends. Moreover, if a woman has a boyfriend or even a husband, the lover will perceive him as a rival and look for flaws in him.
3. Studying the behavior of his beloved, he will strive to find an approach to her. She might unexpectedly sign up for the same courses she takes, or get a dog so she can bump into each other while walking in the park. At the same time, months can pass before the first invitation to the cinema.
4. Often a man in love on the first, second and third date behaves extremely stupidly. Do not drive him away after the first miss. Even a grown forty-year-old man with three higher education able to talk absolute nonsense. You shouldn't make fun of him. Better just help calm down. It will change after some time.
5. He will try to become good in the eyes of his chosen one: he will be caring, give up bad habits, if this is unpleasant for his lady.
6. A man in love will make every effort to earn more. This is his natural desire to provide for his family, which will begin to "move" him in the right direction.
7. He takes care of himself. If he has the slightest suspicion that a meeting with his beloved is possible, he will visit a hairdresser, shave to blue, dress in white from head to toe, and so on.

Compatibility is an indicator of love

When a person has fallen in love for real, he wants to become better, he has a sense of self-respect and new life goals. He accepts the partner for who he is, with his positive and negative qualities. Loving hearts are able to empathize and put themselves in the place of another person. There is no indifference in their relationship. All problems are solved in frank conversations, without insults and resentment.

Lovers complement each other well and have positive influence. This is seen by relatives and friends, and therefore approve of their relationship. In addition, true love is not afraid of separation, even long ones. Trust goes hand in hand with strong relationships.

But at the same time, love can be passionate, hot, with a beating heart and a great desire to be close to your beloved, to give him all of yourself without a trace. When you love, then feelings, as they say, hurt more painfully, and make you more happy and make you happy to the very depths! But at the same time, a person is calm and self-confident, enjoys life, because love has appeared in it!

Your sexual relationship is getting better and more harmonious over time

There is no longer a fear that you will not be liked, that he may disappoint you. A man seeks not only to satisfy his own desire, to satisfy his sexual hunger. But your feelings and preferences are understood and supported. Beloved examines your body willingly and carefully, pleases everyone possible ways of those that you really like, and not in his personal opinion.

Although different people have individual behavior when falling in love, but an attentive girl, if desired, is able to see this feeling in young man even if he hides it.

Watching the young man, you can understand what is hiding behind his mask of indifference. And this article will help her in this, because in it we will tell you how to understand a girl that a guy is in love.

Much can be seen in the eyes

Not all young people have the same open nature: some can easily pursue the lady of their dreams, confessing their love to her, while others are afraid to tell about their feelings not only to her, but also to themselves.

But whatever it was, they still, if the girl is present, they secretly look for her with their eyes.

There are signs of hidden feelings that are common to many men, and they consist in a change in behavior and gestures.

Some men become shy, others begin to laugh out loud and deliberately behave more noisily than they behave in everyday life, others try to express themselves in some other way.

The look of a guy in love is still changing, some cannot take their eyes off their beloved, others try not to look at her. Some of them try to communicate more often with the object of their sighing. No wonder men in love are trying to look prettier and more stylish than before.

By his behavior

A man in love can act like a boy

If you analyze the possible behavior of guys, then sometimes you can notice the strangeness of their actions. What would that mean? Here are some ways to behave:

• Do you wonder why one guy tries to spend a lot of time around you, using every opportunity? Yes, maybe because he's in love. Thus, a man is looking for contact with you, is interested in your life and is trying to find out more information about you.
• It happens that the representative of the stronger sex tries to protect his beloved from everything that can only threaten her.
• Usually, most men cannot boast of attentiveness, because they remember only what interests them. If a guy knows a lot of details from a girl's life, then this also indicates his genuine interest in the object of attention. He knows your date of birth, the names of your brothers and sisters, and possibly other relatives - then he is most likely in love.
• If a guy adjusts his plans for the sake of the girl he likes, it also indicates an increased interest in her. Such an act can be committed by a young man only if she is not indifferent to him.
• A man is trying to change for the better. If love is present in a person's life, then he tries to be kinder, smarter, more interesting. This is especially true of hooligans - you can not recognize them, they try to become sane and positive people.
• Most of the stronger sex, even if the feeling is just emerging, is still able to be jealous. Potential rivals will annoy such a man. And here it all depends on the temperament of the man: he will either avoid meeting the girl when other guys are circling around her, or he won’t be able to stand it, and even fight with them.

Sometimes a young man does not want to demonstrate a high pure feeling for his beloved, but his behavior can speak for itself.

By the eyes

Some men in love don't hide their feelings at all.

Look, it can say a lot, sometimes more than other actions. It is enough to be sure that this is love.

Often a guy in love avoids a direct look at the girl - otherwise she would quickly be able to understand: he is experiencing a real feeling.

But in fact, this is male pride, so it protects itself. But when she turns away, she can even feel the male gaze on her.

Often, if a woman does not see, a guy is able to study her for a long time and intently. The young man's eyes slide over the girl's figure, he examines her appearance in detail. And when an individual dear to the heart turns to face him again, the man again looks away.

Usually, a man in love's eyes shine when looking at the one that has sunk into his soul. At this moment, he feels happiness if a person dear to him is nearby. Another man in love has a gaze. Raised eyebrows at the same time indicate his interest.

A closer look is a special factor of interest. A man may want to look at his lady of the heart again and again, and immediately takes him away if he sees that he has been noticed.

Communicate if you wish

You can understand that a guy is in love and not immediately

More courageous guys try to talk to the object of their sympathy. And then, when communication has already become a habit, a guy in love can listen to a girl a lot, and everything about her will be interesting to him. There will be long phone calls, stories about himself, and in this way, he can enter her life.

Everyone knows that men have many of their interests, very different from women's. They prefer to learn about new car models, phones, cheer for their football team, and more. But when a guy is in love, he can chat with her about anything, as long as she is there.

Further, the young man may often appear in in social networks and watch the girl's page, like, comment on photos. Then he compliments, recites poetry, interesting stories. He sends beautiful, romantic cards. He needs her to log into her account regularly. The guy will be calmer to see the presence of his chosen one in social networks.

And of course, if contact with the adored girl improves, then he can invite him on a date, go to the park, or sit in a cafe. At the same time, he will probably already know about the topics of interest to her, and will gladly support them. For example, if a lady has a dog, he will try to offer to talk about the topic of caring for her, etc.

If a man with a beloved girl talks about family and children, then he tries to find out what opinion she has about this. He is interested in how his beloved sees his future family. This topic is very interesting to the guy, and it is joyful for him to imagine that he will find happiness with her.

Mostly men try to tell a lot of good information about themselves. It is important for him that a woman has a positive opinion about him. Often he himself listens with pleasure to the stories of the girl.

By gesture

A guy in love is capable of unexpected things.

Since a young man who has warm feelings for a representative of the opposite kind gets worried in her presence, his gestures become completely different from those he does in everyday life.

Often they look unnatural, and sometimes even funny from the outside: a guy can stroke his head, twirl a button or some object, and do other illogical actions.

To strange gestures, such physiological reactions as sweating of the palms, rapid heartbeat, and shortness of breath can be added.

The gait sometimes also changes: he straightens his shoulders, lifts his head - in this way, a man attracts attention to himself. When talking interested in a girl a guy can approach her at close range to be in her personal space.

He wants to be close and smell the perfume of a person dear to him. During a conversation, the toes of the shoes and the body of the man will be directed towards the girl, even when at that moment he has to communicate with another person.

Guys in love often show gallantry: when leaving the transport, they give the ladies a hand, let them go ahead. And during a date they try to take by the hand, hug. In a situation where something fell out in a loved one, or something to help her, she always tries to do it quickly so that someone else, especially a rival, does not have time to do it.

If a man often has a smile on his face, then he is either a smiling young man by nature, or in love. When you take a closer look at him, you can understand: if men are honored with his smiles in a row, then in life he is an optimist and a positive individual, and if at the sight of a specific girl, he is in love and wants to win her over.

Each man, when meeting with his object of adoration, reacts to this in his own way, but if his soul at that moment is completely devoid of peace, and a hurricane is raging in it, then often gestures give out an excited state.

By appearance

Guys love romance too

A man, when in love, always strives to look "on top". He tries to look like a stylish, neat, fashionable guy. To do this, he puts on a bright shirt and a new suit, shoes are polished to a shine.

He also makes himself a fashionable haircut at the barbershop, shaves diligently, always smells good. Most guys in the period of falling in love do not allow negligence in clothes. They spend more time near the mirror than before.

When a guy begins to listen to the opinion of a girl, this will mean that she is not indifferent to him. He remembers her every statement about the nuances in his clothes. If there was any remark on her part, then the young man will definitely take it into account.

Inspired by an elevated feeling, a man will try harder than usual to have a well-groomed appearance, in this case he carefully chooses his clothes.

The most important evidence of a man's love

Romantic feelings need to be nourished with the appropriate emotions and mood!

When the relationship develops, and the feeling of the young man grows, then the following events are likely to happen:

• . For most guys, this is not an easy step, and if the young man made it, then the chosen girl can celebrate the victory - he really has tender feelings for her and dreams of being there.
• Feeling of trust. Each person subconsciously decides whether it is possible to trust another. And it is very good when such a feeling is present, because this is an occasion for a serious relationship.
• Gentle attitude. A girl will definitely notice if a guy loves and cherishes her. It is felt instinctively, and contains the whole set of factors of love: a respectful and reverent attitude, a happy look, gentle hugs, a desire to give flowers and gifts.
• Getting to know the parents. A guy in love wants to introduce the girl to his parents, closest friends, and relatives.
• Willingness to completely change your life for the sake of your beloved. He is able to fearlessly follow her to another city, country and overcome all the difficulties that arise, because the main happiness is to be always there.

If a man is not indifferent and interested in a woman, then giving her due attention, giving tenderness and all the warmth of the soul, has a great chance of achieving reciprocity.

Girls, now it will be easier for you to understand that the guy is in love. And to make it easier for him to overcome obstacles in the form of embarrassment and fear of your refusal (after all, not all men are conquerors), go towards him: give him a smile, make a light flirtation, and keep up the conversation in a friendly way. And after that, who knows, perhaps the flame of mutual love will flare up.

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Everyone knows the banal truth that a woman loves with her ears. This is true. I really want to hear compliments and words of love from the guy who we liked! But men, unfortunately, are not always in a hurry to talk about their feelings. And we girls only have to guess what is going on there, inside, behind a chest as wide and strong as a rock.

Fortunately, there are several surefire ways to figure out if a guy is in love or not. Yes, a man may not speak directly about his experiences. But his eyes, voice, gestures and behavior will tell much more than words. And learning to read the male soul is not so difficult.

A man's behavior is a mirror of his real motives. If a guy is not indifferent to you, he will definitely do the following things:

1. Call often

Of course, not all men behave the same way. A confident guy is easier to call than someone who is very shy. But even a timid young man will find at least a couple of questions or topics for telephone conversation. Even if he can’t say anything sensible into the phone, he will embarrassedly apologize for the trouble.

2. Always make time for you

If you suddenly need help, your boyfriend will agree to come to the rescue. If he is in love, he will worry about your problems, delve into the difficult situation that you are in, listen carefully, give advice and, of course, help.

If a guy is indifferent, he will find a thousand reasons why he is forced to leave you at a difficult moment (mom suddenly fell ill, the boss called, the car broke down, etc.).

3. Admire you

Usually men do not notice what we are wearing or how we comb our hair. But a guy in love always thinks that you look amazing. He does not always manage to express his admiration in the form of compliments (after all, not all men know how to say them, plus some are embarrassed). But he will “devour” you with his eyes and in no case will he say that the dress does not suit you, and his lips are made up too brightly.

A guy who has true feelings will never be shy to show you off to his friends or family. On the contrary, he will be proud to show the whole world the object of his sincere adoration.

The look of a guy in love

The eyes are the mirror of the soul. This truth can also serve as a weapon in the secret female intelligence. You can tell by the eyes of a man whether he is interested in you or not.

For example, a guy looks straight at you without looking away or wandering over his face and body. Such direct eye-to-eye eye contact is interpreted in two ways: a man can see you as an enemy or, on the contrary, is head over heels in love. In order not to be mistaken, look into his pupils: if they are narrowed, the guy is tense and preparing for defense, if they are slightly enlarged, he is very interested in you, but if they are greatly expanded, he experiences sexual desire.

An indifferent guy will look at the ceiling, at entrance doors cafes, to neighboring tables, etc., unable to hide boredom.

But if a guy looks at the floor, occasionally daring to look up at you, he may be very in love, but terribly embarrassed.

Another interesting feature of the male gaze: if a guy looks at you, but his gaze constantly shifts from his face to his shoulders, neck, chest and other parts of the body, then he most likely just feels a strong sexual attraction to you.

A guy in love usually can't take his eyes off your face. He seems to be trying to remember every line, examine every eyelash and not miss the slightest movement of his lips. He intuitively looks for the answer in your face to his question: do you like him.

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Gestures and facial expressions

Many books have been written about non-verbal signs. Sign language says about us ten times more words to those who understand it. It is not for nothing that at the interview, an attentive recruiter not only listens to your confession about yourself, but watches how you sit, where you put your hands, whether you are fiddling with objects, etc. By these non-verbal signals, he will know whether you are suitable for the position or no, before you even finish your monologue.

So it is on the love front: a guy may try to hide his interest from you (for example, because of embarrassment or fear of being rejected), but his body and face give him away. When a man is in love, he does not notice what his hands are doing:

• fiddling with a tie or buttons;
• smooth hair;
• twist the ear;
• scratches his cheek, etc.

Often a guy in love, looking into your face, involuntarily copies your facial expressions or gestures while you are telling him something:

• frowns if you are unhappy;
• smiles if he sees a smile on your face (and not because you are telling a funny joke);
• nods his head at the same time as you;
• even waves his hand when you greet your acquaintances passing by, whom he sees for the first time.

This behavior may seem absent-minded, but in fact, this is a clear sign that the guy is very in love.

If we talk about facial expressions, then a guy who is really in love raises his eyebrows and keeps his eyes wide open. When talking to you, it is difficult for him to control his emotions enough to casually squint and wink, as heroes from films do.

The voice also serves as a kind of detector. Usually, a man who is interested in you, he "sits down": very low overtones appear or becomes hoarse, as if the guy's mouth is dry. In addition, the voice becomes muffled, sometimes turning into an intimate, intriguing half-whisper.

How to check if a guy is in love

There are a few more female tricks on how to unobtrusively find out a guy's serious attitude towards you:

1. Test him for generosity

Every girl likes to receive gifts. It's always nice. Even if it's not a Chanel bag for a fabulous price, but just a small chocolate bar that "accidentally" ended up in his coat pocket.

You can specifically check the guy's generosity by walking past the counter where you liked some cute little thing, and show interest in it. If your boyfriend is in love, he will rush to acquire the object of your attention and give it to you.

2. Test him for fidelity

In a cafe where you settled down to drink a cup of coffee, draw his attention to any pretty girl in the hall. Say that she has beautiful shoes, or hair. And see how long the guy will consider the stranger (and whether he will turn his head at all).

If your companion is in love with you, he will either not show interest in the other at all, or will glance at her with an absent-minded look, in a hurry to return to communication with you.

3. Check for willingness to help

A man interested in you will surround you with care. He will only be happy when you ask him to carry a heavy bag or paint the door. Even if he is very busy, he will make time to show you that he is serious.

Signs of a guy in love

So, let's summarize the signs that will indicate to us the true feelings of a guy:

1. He will always find time to call, meet, help and just listen.
2. He does not hide you from his friends and family.
3. He can't take his eyes off your face. At the same time, his eyes shine, and the pupils are slightly dilated.
4. His facial expressions and gestures sometimes mirror your own. Thus, he empathizes with your emotions. Or the guy is just listening to you with his mouth slightly open and his eyes wide open.
5. His voice becomes low and muffled when he talks to you.
6. He only looks at you. He is not interested in passing beauties.
7. He is generous and considerate towards you.

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How to understand that you are not mistaken in your assumptions, and he was carried away by you?

In cases where you got a secretive "copy", non-verbal signals of sympathy that are simply impossible to control will come to the rescue.

A man in love will definitely show himself

Looking closely at such a "scout", you can see some features in his current behavior.

Falling in love, any person experiences a whole range of different feelings - happiness, mental and emotional upsurge, even some kind of euphoria.

It is almost impossible to hide this, but something will give out - eyes, movements, facial expressions:

1. By the look and expression of the eyes it is easiest for an observant girl to determine that a man is in love, but hides his feelings. When a guy thinks that no one is looking at him, his gaze, turned to his beloved, expresses all the tenderness, warmth, affection that he feels for her. If, at this moment, to catch a glance, he can deliberately become serious or look away.
2. And in a state of falling in love, we all, without looking up, look into the eyes each other, at the same time, our pupils dilate, as we experience bright positive emotions. The world around ceases to exist, there are only two.
3. To please, we all unconsciously begin to preen- straighten your hair, straighten your shoulders, the gait becomes easier. A man tightens his stomach, rounds his chest, spreads his legs wider, puts his thumbs behind the belt or, if his hands are in his pockets, then the thumbs remain on top.
4. The desire to be closer to the object of love makes a man lean closer when talking, as if inadvertently touch. If you are nearby, then the toes of his shoes will almost always point in your direction.
5. A man in love, completely unaware of this, repeats the movements and facial expressions of the one who occupies his thoughts. He tries to attract attention and begins to gesticulate more actively, telling some stories loudly, although no one has noticed this before him.
6. You can often hear the expression "I'm choking on love." And non-verbally, this is expressed in the fact that a guy can straighten or try to loosen his tie, pull or unbutton a button, as if trying to take a deep breath to make it easier to breathe.
7. A man in love changes even outwardly, he tries to look neater, dress more beautifully, begins to play sports in order to look as attractive as possible in the eyes of the woman he is interested in.

Tip: when a woman is not interested in a man, he will miss communicating with her. It is also clearly visible - mechanical movements, tapping the foot on the floor, scratching the ear, absent eyes, crossed arms, toes of shoes pointing towards the exit.

Such different manifestations of love

Depending on the nature and psychological attitudes, we all manifest ourselves in different ways.

Psychologists divide people into different psychotypes, astrologers highlight some features inherent in certain signs of the zodiac.

He introduced you to his friends

Knowing the love of many women for astrology, you can try to understand the behavior of your boyfriend using the horoscope.

But still take it with a good dose of humor:

1. For example, it is believed that it is quite easy to understand if a Taurus man is in love. Romance is attributed to this sign, which means that all his actions will be saturated with romance - flowers, poems, long courtship. He will change his image and will be ready to sacrifice everything for his beloved. Is it really that simple? Girls, we are looking for Taurus for ourselves faster - there is no life with them, but solid chocolate.
2. You can determine a man in love with the Gemini sign by a radical change in image. That is, if he was a quiet "nerd", then he will immediately turn into a tough guy, a leader in everything, an athlete, an activist ... However, we are warned about the inconstancy of this sign - today he loves, and tomorrow he no longer exists.
3. According to astrologers, you don’t have to bother to understand that the Sagittarius man is not indifferent to you. His persistent courtship will not leave food for such thoughts, besides, he will adapt to your tastes and begin to get involved in the same things as you.
4. Or take, for example, the Capricorn man. When he is in love, he begins to study you, your habits, tastes, and after that he tries his best to please you. Also probably a good option. However, I did not come across such instances.

You know where he lives and already know his parents

It is impossible to so unambiguously attribute to people born in the same month a complete similarity in manifestations of character.

We ourselves notice this when we begin to analyze what is written in magazines. Psychologists distinguish several types of behavior in love relationships that have common features.

However, there are no “pure” representatives here either.

In one situation you will behave this way, and in another or with another person everything will be completely different.

So, how to understand that a man is in love?

"Daddy"- He will do anything for his beloved. He will patronize, take care, please the girl even to the detriment of his own interests.

But he can impose his opinion. You will have to forget about independence, since he makes all decisions individually.

"Prince"- the one every girl is waiting for. Real feelings, fidelity, attention to the feelings of his beloved, he tries to do without requiring any sacrifice, as long as you feel good.

"Friend"- and will treat you as his best.

You must have common ideals and interests, you help each other solve problems, support in everything, and sex does not play a decisive role.

"Consumer" He needs to get what he wants from you.

It can be beauty to show off in front of friends, or help in a career, housekeeping.

"Baby"- a typical henpecked, who will not take a step without your instructions.

It will be necessary to surround him with love and care. Powerful women, this option can be perfect.

"Casanova"- wants sex on the first date. He knows how to seduce, but he can't love.

If you don't want a serious relationship, or if you want to get by with his many girlfriends, you can try curbing this one.

His eyes will become bloodshot at any look at you from another man.

This one can even raise his hand, and when he calms down, he will beg for forgiveness on his knees, swearing that this will never happen again.

Men, like women, change when love comes. It is very noticeable from the outside.

Some try their best to hide their feelings, while wanting to make the girl try to please him herself, others, on the contrary, simply pursue their beloved.

But if you also fell in love, then try not to lose this wonderful feeling, because mutual love is what we all dream of.

Sometimes one of the hardest things about starting a new relationship is knowing if the person likes you. Understanding a guy's feelings is quite difficult, so determining how attractive you are to him is not an easy task. Watch him, use common sense and talk to him directly to understand if the guy is in love with you.

Steps

Pay attention to body language

Look into his eyes. If a guy likes you very much, you will see it in his eyes. Some of the signals of his behavior may seem contradictory, but it depends on the personal qualities of the person.

Pay attention to his posture. Men, like any male, unconsciously change their behavior when they try to pay attention to a woman (the female of their species).

Take into account any touch. If he is looking for an excuse to touch you, this is one of the surest signs of his sympathy. If you are talking and the guy suddenly touches your hand or palm, most likely, in this way he probes the soil in order to understand how you will react to his touch.

• Encourage such touches by reciprocating. When talking to a guy, gently touch his hand and look into his eyes. By his response, it will be clear how nice you are to him.
• Keep in mind that you will need to compare his touches with his usual behavior. If a guy rushes to hug everyone and everyone he meets on his way, then the fact that he hugged you is most likely. does not mean anything.

1. Pay attention to the clues that are reflected on the face - a blush and a smile. A guy who is very interested in you most likely smiles at you often and for a long time, laughs a lot at your stories, even if they are not very funny.

   Notice if the guy is imitating you. Men and women inadvertently "mirror" the behavior of the person they are interested in. In other words, this means that they literally copy the mannerisms of the interlocutor, as if sending him a signal of similarity and compatibility.

   • This can be easily tested by doing something you would not normally do, such as "accidentally" putting your hand to your mouth or stretching. See if your interlocutor repeats this gesture.

Learn to distinguish love from physical attraction

1. Talk about serious interesting topics. With the person with whom you serious relationship and love, you can discuss the most different topics. Make sure you can comfortably carry on a two-way conversation.

   • The theme can be anything from your hopes and dreams, past relationships to your favorite celebrities.
   • If the guy is not particularly involved in the conversation, or it seems to you that he is not interested in your opinion, it is unlikely that he has mutual feelings for you, or he simply does not the best way For you.

2. Go on an innocent romantic date. Especially if you're in an intimate relationship, it's important to go on a date or just spend time without physical intimacy. Having fun together without a hint of intimacy is an integral part of a healthy and happy relationship, in addition, such a date will distinguish a guy who likes you specifically from a guy who is only interested in your body.

   Get through a difficult situation together. Of course, this is not something that you can set up yourself, but if you are going through some kind of situation that is emotionally very difficult for you, you can test the sincerity and depth of feelings of this guy.

   • Be honest and open about your feelings about a particular situation, just like your partner.
   • Discuss your emotional needs with your boyfriend, but remember that guys often find it difficult to share their feelings and emotions. But that doesn't mean he's not interested in you.

3. Be honest about your feelings and see how he reacts. If you love a guy and want to know if your feelings are mutual, tell this guy how you feel about him.

   • If you tell a guy that you love him, be prepared in advance for the fact that he will not immediately reciprocate. But that doesn't mean your relationship is over. Perhaps he just needs a little time to think about your words.
   • Watch his body language as you tell him how you feel. If he suddenly immediately felt somehow uncomfortable next to you, he is unlikely to share your feelings.
   • If he did not answer anything and it seems to you that he does not feel reciprocity, he is unlikely to love you.

4. Talk about the future. Talking about the future can kill two birds with one stone: firstly, you can understand whether your goals and values ​​\u200b\u200bare the same, which speak of long-term compatibility. Secondly, thanks to such a conversation, you can understand whether a person is only interested in "one-day" relationships.

   • Start by talking about your personal goals and thoughts about the future.
   • Then casually ask him if he envisions his future with you.
   • Keep in mind that goals for the future and his vision in general can change a lot, especially if you are still very young. Therefore, periodically reviewing and reevaluating these goals is a good idea.

5. Spend time with his family. If a guy invites you to spend time with his family, chances are he loves you.