New acquaintances - an opportunity to get away from the routine! They always bring an element of surprise into our lives. Do not languish in anticipation, be afraid to do something wrong. Modesty and isolation are different concepts in their essence. Society is accustomed to communicating with unfamiliar people on the Internet. If you like a person, do not hesitate, write to him first.
On the page of the guy you like, put a few likes. Psychologists claim that any encouragement acts as a "stroking".
Don't be afraid to ask questions. Try to find out the topics that interest him in order to inspire trust on his part.
- I'm having a good day today, how was yours?
- I'm in a great mood, will you please with the same answer?
- What are the plans for tomorrow?
- Judging by the photos in the page, you love the group (fishing, museum, film). I'm crazy about it too. Let's exchange impressions?
- Throw off, please, the track ... I don’t want to search on the Internet.
- I love this time of the year, and what emotions does it evoke in you?
- How do you spend your evenings after work (study)?
- Is it easy to surprise or shock you, does this require global changes?
- Horrible mood! I want new emotions! Do you have such conditions?
- Would you like to chat with an interesting person?
- What will you do if aliens suddenly arrive?
- Has it happened to transfer friends to the rank of enemies, and to make enemies friends?
- Do you consider yourself an adult? Will you take custody of me?
- Have you ever been in deadly situations?
- If men rule the world, what do women rule?
Interesting to interest a guy
List of dirty questions
About love and relationships
- Do you want to change something in our relationship?
- Do you consider me the closest person?
- If your friends don't like me, will it affect our relationship?
- Can you sacrifice yourself for me?
- How do you feel about change? Can you forgive this fact?
- What is the stupidest thing you would do for me?
- If we lived in the 19th century, would you defend the honor of your girlfriend in a duel?
- Our acquaintance is the best event in your life?
- Allow me to fall in love with you?
- They say I'm a passionate person, are you convinced of this?
- If I get offended and keep silent, will you try to find out the reason?
- Do you see me as the mother of your children?
- Do you not see the shortcomings in me or turn a blind eye to them?
- Are you worth all my virtues?
On an intimate topic
Tricky to understand him better
Questions to get to know him better
- Does a man have to know how to cook?
- Which of your actions are you proud of?
- Did your ancestors perceive you as a problem child or a good boy?
- Are you afraid of old age, weakness, loss of male potential?
- How do you treat relatives?
- What did you dream about as a child, did your dreams come true?
- What character traits in girls annoy you?
- How and with whom do you prefer to spend your free time?
- Who main man in your life?
- Are you easy to get in touch with girls?
- What emotions evoke in you memories of a former passion?
- What act, in your opinion, cannot be understood and forgiven?
- What can you forgive a loved one?
- Self-sufficient women making their own careers don't irritate you?
- Can you manage conflict situations?
- How much are you willing to spend on a gift for me?
- Whose fault is it if a woman goes to another?
- How do you feel about guys who throw mud at their exes?
Questions for boyfriend
- Do you enjoy talking about love?
- What are you willing to do for your beloved?
- How can I prove my love for you?
- The reason that can push you to break our relationship?
- How strong are your feelings for me?
- Can you prove your love to me daily?
- How do you feel about monogamy? Can you love me for the rest of your life?
- If you and I fight, who should be the first to apologize?
- Are you considering me as a potential wife?
- Do you have plans for a large family? How many children would you like to be the father of?
- A loving person does not have enough life to show his love to the fullest, do you agree?
- We'll never get old for each other if we love a lot, right?
- When a person stops loving, is it a tragedy?
- Is your love for me real?
- Ready to sacrifice yourself for the sake of your loved one?
- Are you afraid of losing me?
- Do you consider me your happiness, created only for you?
- If a rival comes your way, will you fight for me?
What to ask an ex-boyfriend?
100 more questions for a guy on any topic
- What do you want to get from life in the global sense?
- How do you feel about pets?
- Has the best day of your life already happened?
- Do you have a friend for whom you will do anything?
- Can you call yourself an altruist, ready for self-sacrifice?
- What style of clothing do you prefer?
- Do you like to sleep or do you regret wasting your time sleeping?
- Marriage scares you family life, new responsibilities?
- Will you love your wife when she becomes fat and ugly?
- Can you define the word "vulgarity"?
- What, in your understanding, do the words “honor”, “dignity” mean?
- Do you like eccentric conceited girls who live by the principle "I want"?
- Share with me a hidden secret?
- How do you feel about the homeless? Are they to blame for this situation?
- Is housework acceptable for you: washing, ironing, washing floors and dishes?
- If we quarrel, who will comfort you?
- Will you give up your beloved for the sake of career growth, big money?
- What do you prefer: lie on the couch, go to the theater, have an active rest?
- If you have a child, who will choose his name?
- Do you consider yourself a "mama's boy" category?
- Who is more important to you - father or mother?
- What or who is able to cheer you up, if it is terribly spoiled?
- What do you like more: spending time with friends, paying attention to your beloved?
- Factor that irritates you? Why?
- If someone asks for help, how do you react?
- Will you accept my full reincarnation, or maybe you have been dreaming about it for a long time?
- Practicing healthy eating Or satisfy your hunger with what you have to?
- Who should play the leading role in the family?
- Can you give in to a person, realizing that he is wrong?
- Is it easy to express your opinion or close in yourself?
- Are you jealous of other people's success?
- What is a car for you: a luxury or a means of transportation?
- Can you celebrate a significant event without drinking alcohol?
- How much and how often do you drink alcohol?
- Have you tried drugs?
- Can you hit a girl if she provokes you?
- What is your worst act? Is he connected to crime?
- Did you set a goal? What are you doing to make it happen?
- Do you believe in extrasensory perception, occult sciences, predictions?
- Signs have existed since ancient times, but how do you feel about them?
- Do you believe in the transmigration of souls? If so, who were you in a past life?
- Are you afraid of pain? Can you cry?
- Which country would you choose for permanent residence?
- Are you glad you were born in this country?
- Do you have a favorite holiday?
- Do you prefer noisy crowded companies or quiet home gatherings on holidays?
- What are your favorite genres of cinema?
- Is your life strategy the nature of habits?
- Who do you think children should be with after their parents divorce?
- How do your relatives treat you?
- Do you take a leading position among friends or more often agree with their opinion?
- Are you selfish, selfish?
- Which of famous people do you consider your idol?
- How do you feel about the manifestation of narcissism in people?
- Did you make decisions that negatively affected your life in the future?
- Do you have an addiction that you want to get rid of?
- Your view on the latest political events what is happening in the world (country)?
- If, as in a fairy tale, three wishes come true, what will you guess?
- What can you do without much effort for a long time?
- Do you often go to nightclubs? Are you completely liberated in them?
- If you had a time machine, what events would you like to witness?
- Will you understand a girl if she still has some feelings for an ex-boyfriend?
- What steps will you take to make a memorable first date?
- How do you feel about virgins? Do they deserve respect or criticism?
- Do you consider people with non-traditional sexual orientation as friends?
- How far are you willing to go for sexual contact?
- Capable of offending a person for no reason?
- Can you communicate with your ex-wife's husband without any problems?
- Fall in love with a person to the point of insanity at first sight?
- How can you prove the seriousness of your intentions to a girl?
- What age women are you interested in?
- Do you approve of unequal marriages?
- When you get married, will you allow your parents to interfere in your family relationships?
- Prone to outbursts of jealousy that can escalate to physical violence?
- How long can you abstain from sexual gratification?
- Do you wear underwear or does this piece of clothing bother you?
- Do you like women who neglect wearing underwear? Do you think that they provoke men with this?
- Are your parents not looking for a good daughter-in-law? Let them rejoice! They found her!
- A good kiss is an art! Got it? Will you teach me?
- Will you fall in love with a woman if she has children from a previous marriage? Can you give a piece of love to her kids?
- Do you attend church services? Do you believe in a guardian angel?
- Do you like to shock others? How do you feel about people who have such behavior has become the norm?
- Parents gave sisters and brothers?
- What is your attitude to the project "House - 2"? Fancy yourself as a participant in a reality show?
- Service in the Army does not scare? Considering it as an immediate duty, picked up an alternative, will you evade?
- Are you having relationship problems with your parents?
- How are you perceived by the team at work (at school)?
- Will you insist on a strict diet, realizing that the girl is two steps away from anorexia?
- Completely satisfied with your life, did not want to start over?
- Letting women pay for themselves?
- Do you have talents that other people don't have?
- Is a marriage contract an obligatory stage in the relationship of spouses?
- Do you easily admit your feelings?
- Do you think life is easier without love?
- Has there been unrequited love in your life?
- Should a deceived lover be respected or despised?
- Do you know what to do with a woman in the bedroom?
- Do you like spanking girls on the ass?
- Do you struggle with circumstances or go with the flow?
- Can a woman ruin a man's life?
Don't expect to get 100% correct answers! But, your good and tricky questions will do the trick. They will help you get to know the guy better and understand if he is worth continuing further communication with him.
Each person is a whole Universe, which can be known endlessly.
When a guy and a girl begin to communicate closely or, they gradually get to know each other, but time does not always reveal the essence of a person, his character and features. Sometimes it happens that a loved one presents, which may not always be pleasant. In order to get to know a girl better, to get closer to her innermost dreams and thoughts, to quietly open the door to her spiritual world, it is important to learn to ask her the right questions.
Competent questions will help a guy not only get to know the girl he likes, but also defuse the situation, strengthen feelings, sort out relationships, create an atmosphere of comfort, fun and romance.
- Are you studying or working?
- What are your hobbies?
- What are your favorite actors and ?
- What are your favorite places in the city?
- Tell me about your hobby?
- Do you have brothers, sisters?
- Do you love your job/study?
- Do you have a lot of friends?
- How often do you go out into nature?
- What means your name?
- Do you have pages in in social networks?
- What can make you smile?
- Where do you spend the most time?
- Do you believe in fate?
- What qualities do you like the most in people?
- What can you never forgive a person?
- What are the strong ones based on?
- How much time is possible?
- Do you know foreign languages?
- Can you drive a car?
- Are you creative?
- You have good imagination?
- What do you like more: tea or coffee?
- What is your zodiac sign?
- Should a guy and a girl be compatible according to the horoscope?
- Do you love children?
- Whether there is a ?
Questions on a first date
- I want to know what was your childhood like? Were you a quiet, shy girl, or were you a nimble, restless girl?
- Did you love going to school? did you dream as a child?
- What were you called as a child at home, in kindergarten or at school? What do you call your family and friends?
- Tell us about the most memorable moment from your childhood?
- Did you like to go to the circus as a child?
- Did you go to camp as a child?
- Do you still have friends with whom you were close as a child?
- How many friends do you have in life?
- Who do you like to spend your free time with?
- What do you think a real friend should be?
- What can push you away from a person?
- Who knows yours best?
- Do you believe in friendship between a guy and a girl?
- Have you ever seen at first sight?
- When did your first one happen?
- Tell me, how do you think of an ideal man?
- Can it affect the relationship between a man and a woman?
- Do you believe that somewhere on Earth every person has his own ideal half, which is intended for him?
- What is most important to you in a relationship?
- Are you ever the first in your feelings?
- Which is better: to love yourself or?
- Can you forgive?
- Do you believe that lies can be "good"?
- If you were told that you could choose any city in the world for permanent residence, which city would you choose?
- Do you like to travel a lot?
- Have you visited any countries? Where would you like to visit?
- How do you feel about the sea?
- Tell me, how do you like to relax?
- What kind of music do you listen to?
- What artist's concert do you dream of?
- Tell me your favorite song.
- What do you like to watch?
- Which one are you willing to watch again and again?
- What would you like to make your own film about?
- Do you like to read? Which ? What authors do you prefer?
- Do you like to watch TV?
- Tell me what are yours like?
- Are you an owl or a lark?
- Do you like ice cream?
- What dish do you like the most?
- Tell me about your family?
- Do you have four-legged friends at home?
- What kind of dogs do you like?
- What household chores do you dislike?
- What would you like to be in 10 years?
- If you won a lot of money in the lottery, how would you spend it?
- Would you like to write a book? What would you name a book about yourself?
- How do you feel about dancing?
- Do you do any sports?
- Do you spend time in clubs?
- How long can you live without the Internet?
- What do you think about ?
- Have you ever gone on a hike?
- If you could travel back in time, where would you go?
- What unique ability would you like to have?
- Do you love flowers? What flowers do you love the most?
- Tell us about the most unusual gift given to you? And what did you do?
- What holiday do you like the most?
- If you had a goldfish, what wishes would you ask her to fulfill?
- If you knew that the world would end in 24 hours, what would you do in that time?
- If you could be in the body of a celebrity, which star would you choose?
- Have you ever dreamed of being on a desert island?
- What is the most unusual thing you have ever done?
- What do you like more: spontaneous decisions or deliberate actions?
- What color do you prefer and why?
- What time of year is your favorite?
- Which gift would please you more: a spacious apartment in the city center or a small house on the sea coast?
- What day can you call the best and unforgettable?
- Do you like extreme?
- Do you consider yourself happy?
- Have you ever had a personal diary?
- Do you like to sing?
- Do you play cards?
- Do you love yours?
- Do you consider yourself a creative person?
List of correspondence and dating on the Internet
- Do you like cats?
- Could you live in the mountains or in the countryside?
- What can't you go out without?
- Do you like going to the cinema?
- You're a sweet tooth?
- Have you ever jumped with a parachute? Would you like to try?
- What new, interesting, unusual thing happened to you today?
- What causes you?
- What is your ideal home like?
- What fairy tale did you like the most as a child? Which fairy tale character do you like the most and why?
- Do you have virtual friends?
- How often do you write under photos?
- How much time do you spend on social networks?
- Tell me about a funny moment you remember.
- Do you collect anything?
- What do you like to cook the most?
- How was your day?
- Where do you draw energy and inspiration from?
- Do you attend any courses?
- What makes you proud?
- Is it possible to fall in love with a person by correspondence?
- Who is your role model?
- What are your plans for the weekend?
- Did you write letters to Santa Claus as a child?
- Do you type fast?
- Do you like it when people communicate with you through emoticons?
- How many guys are on your blacklist?
- How not to get on your black list?
- In which unusual places you ?
- How do you feel about virtual and virtual gifts?
Interesting questions, with a catch and answers
- What qualities should a guy have?
- Is beauty alone enough to succeed with men?
- How do you feel about holiday romances?
- Is it possible to call a marriage a joint life of a man and a woman without registering their relationship?
- What do you associate the word "pleasure" with?
- How do you feel about arranged marriage?
- Could you be a housewife?
- What is forbidden to do on a first date?
- How do you feel about guys who shave their chests and underarms?
- Can you spot the ladies' man quickly?
- How do you feel about henpecked?
- Is there a paradise in a hut?
- How do you feel about a nude beach?
- Who gossips more, boy or girl?
- Whose thoughts would you like to read?
- Can you flatter?
- What can't be eaten for breakfast? (It is impossible to eat lunch or dinner).
- Where to get snow from last year? (Can be found January 1).
- What happens in empty pockets? (Holes).
- Is it possible for it to rain for two days without stopping? (No, there are nights between days.)
- Which month is the shortest? (The shortest month is May, since the word "month" consists of 3 letters).
- What do people see when their eyes are closed? (People dream when they sleep).
- Which question cannot be answered positively? (Are you sleeping now?).
- Have you ever done something that makes you feel ashamed later?
- What parts of the male body are most interesting to girls?
- Do people change over time?
About love, so that a girl falls in love with you
- What is it like to be the prettiest girl on the planet "Earth"?
- Can you forgive betrayal?
- What should I do to impress you?
- What thoughts visit you before falling asleep?
- Do you often?
- Do you like morning dates?
- What is the most important thing in a love relationship?
- What dream of yours can I fulfill?
- Have you ever struggled with your feelings?
- How should a guy show his feelings?
- Do you like being called "bunny", "sun", "my soul"?
- Do you like to hug?
- What kind of romantic date are you dreaming of?
- How to win your heart?
- What do we have in common?
- What do you like most about me?
- Do you dream about love while listening to your favorite music?
- Describe me with five adjectives?
- Have you ever dreamed of becoming a fashion model? Can I take a photo of you?
- Do you dream about me?
- When was the last time you slow danced? Do you want to dance with me?
- Would you like to spend a sleepless night on the beach looking at the stars?
Smart questions to find out if she loves you
- Could you go with me to the end of the world?
- Would you marry me if I was unemployed?
- Why will you never forgive me?
- What do you want me most?
- Would you risk your life for me?
- Would you like our children to be like me?
- What quality do you think is the best in me?
- Do you imagine our life together?
- Do you keep my gifts?
- Would you like to travel with me around the world?
- Would you be able to stay with me if I became seriously ill?
- What does the word "" mean to you?
- What kind of wedding are you dreaming of?
- Do you remember our first meeting?
- What act can impress you?
- Do you reply to my messages right away?
- What do you not like about me?
- How often do you think of me?
- Do you believe that every person has a soul mate?
- What do you dream of me?
vulgar, funny and stupid
- Tell me about your erotic fantasies?
- Have you ever had a kiss on the lips?
- Have you ever sent a guy intimate photos?
- Have you ever made love in public places?
- What turns you on the most in a man?
- Do you watch adult films?
- Do you go home naked?
- Do you like experiments in bed?
- Do you enjoy commanding men?
- Can vodka be called medicine?
- What animal can fall in love with a skunk?
- If white dance is when a girl invites a guy, then white night is when a girl invites to dance the night?
- Do you talk to pets?
- What talent do you consider useless?
- What a ridiculous costume New Year did you buy?
- What is never in a women's bag? (There is no order in it).
- Can you get better when you're constantly being fed promises?
- How do you quit a job you haven't got yet?
- Tell me your favorite joke.
- Where is your erogenous zone?
- How do you feel about male strippers?
- Is it okay to give yourself to a guy on the first date?
What is it romantic to ask a girl on VK (VKontakte)?
- What music would you like to dance with your loved one?
- What dishes should be prepared for a romantic dinner?
- Tell us about the most unusual love confession in your life?
- Do you dream of kisses in the rain?
- Which fruit flavored kiss would you prefer?
- Do you like it when a guy holds your hand?
- Have you been texting with your loved one all night long?
- What movie about love do you think is the most beautiful?
- How do you imagine your future husband?
- What did you dream about this night?
- Did your boyfriend text you?
- Do you dream of celebrating a golden wedding?
- Can love last forever?
- How old were you when you fell in love for the first time?
- Do you dream of a big family?
- Do you like walking at night under the moon?
- Could you take me in a public place?
- Do you cry when you watch Titanic?
- Have you ever cried for love?
- What date are you dreaming of?
- Have you ever had butterflies in your stomach?
- Is the appearance of a guy important to you or what is the main thing?
- What can you cook your favorite guy for breakfast?
- Do you love Valentine's Day?
- What fruit or berry do you associate with love and romance?
Anonymous questions (the girl may not answer)
You just met and you don't know how to dilute a boring conversation at all? Every girl in the arsenal should have interesting and cool questions, to some extent with a trick, in order to test him for ingenuity as best as possible, which will not let a single guy get bored (perhaps even vulgar ones). We present a whole list of questions, for all occasions, with which you can 100% forget about uncomfortable silent pauses in communication with guys.
This block of questions will allow not only to hook the interlocutor for further communication, but also to find out all his sides, which of course will give rise to certain conclusions. As a rule, these are questions of a general nature that are very flattering to a guy, because in spite of the stereotype about the talkativeness of all women, men simply love to talk about themselves. First of all, ask the guy about his hobbies and preferences. These questions will be relevant to everyone, without exception, both men and women. Think about what question you would be happy to answer and ask it without any hesitation. For example:
- What music can you imagine your life without?
- What is the most recent movie you watched?
- Do you like camping?
- What food do you hate?
- How do you feel about religion? Do you believe in God?
- What is your favorite dessert?
- Are you afraid of spiders?
- Do you like to go to discos? Have you been to costume parties?
- What is your zodiac sign? Do you believe in horoscope?
- Did they tell you by hand?
- Do you have a best friend? How did you meet?
- What do you like more - receiving or giving gifts?
- What fears did you have as a child?
- What can throw you off balance?
- What can't you forgive?
- What can not be done at the first communication?
- What is the funniest incident in your life?
- Do you believe in ghosts?
- Tell me about your first love. Do you believe in love at first sight?
- What is the first memory in your life?
- Imagine that you won a million dollars, what will you spend them on?
- Have you ever fought?
- What words did you say incorrectly as a child?
- What thing do you use every day and consider indispensable?
- Did you have prophetic dreams?
Looking for first date questions?
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These unpretentious topics will allow not only to find a common interest and discuss joint taste preferences, but also to discover new styles of music, movie genres and more. useful information. But, in any case, you should not criticize him. As they say, how many people have so many opinions. Try to initially tune in to listen, let the interlocutor open up and do not impose. At such moments, it is important to feel whether the given topic appeals to you. young man. Ask more clarifying questions on the topics given, thereby showing genuine interest in the conversation.
cool questions
This block of questions will be useful to you if you decide to defuse the situation after some serious conversation, or you don’t want to talk about serious topics at all. Particularly interesting and funny are the answers to questions like “what would you do if…” or “what would you do…”:
- If you were sent to a desert island for a whole year and you could take 2 people with you, who would you invite with you?
- If you were to stay overnight in a hypermarket, what would you do?
- Would you like to act in a porn film and what genre will this film be?
- How would you react if all of a sudden everyone's clothes were gone?
- Would you like to be a woman for one day and what would you do first?
- Have you ever wanted to change your appearance forever with someone and what would you never change?
- What superpower would you like to have and why?
- Who do you think you were in a past life?
- Ever woke up in an unfamiliar place?
- Imagine that you were given the opportunity to commit any crime with impunity, would you commit it and what kind?
- What is better, a fat girl, but with big breasts, or a thin girl, but with a ugly neckline?
- When will we submit an application to the registry office?
- Would you take your future wife's last name?
- Let's do it right now, ready?
- You have the opportunity to make any wish within 30 seconds. Tell me quickly!
- If you knew that the world would end tomorrow, how would you live your last day?
- Did you go on a blind date and did you like the girl? What would you do if she wasn't your type at all?
- Imagine that you have a time machine, what time will you go?
It is very important not to cross the line of flirtatious humor. It is such a simple dialogue that will help him relax and open up as much as possible. Try to make jokes about branching topics, without touching on family, friendship, religion, or his salary, so as not to embarrass the person.
Trick questions
Each girl tries to find out as much as possible all the "skeletons in the closet" from the opposite sex. But how to do it so that the guy does not even suspect about it? Very easy too! It is worth asking a couple of tricky questions, and he will give himself up.
- Can you openly tell a person about his shortcomings?
- Were there cases of theft on your part?
- Should a wife report to her husband about her purchases?
- Would you lend money to someone you barely know?
- How do you feel about cheating? How many times did you change?
- Slept with ex-girlfriends?
- Able to trust your email or social media password to your girlfriend?
- Are you a jealous person?
- What would you say if a girl approached you on the street and offered to have sex?
- What incident in your life would you like to forget?
- Imagine the situation, you were invited to the wedding of an ex-girlfriend, will you take your current one with you?
- How do you cut loved ones out of your life?
- Have you ever felt like you love two girls at the same time? How did you do?
- What are the three things you can't imagine the perfect girl without?
- What parts of the body are the first things men pay attention to?
- What was the most expensive gift you gave to your loved one?
- What would be your reaction if your best friend confessed that he was gay?
These topics are quite delicate, especially for males. People prefer not to discuss some moments in life, the main thing is not to make a mistake and not step on this “mine”. Be vigilant, learn to feel the subtle threads of the dialogue so as not to accidentally cut them off. Don't push for answers unless the person is obviously in the mood to discuss them. Also, you should not expect 100% truth, the answers of men on such topics very rarely coincide with reality. Avoid personal questions (related specifically to you) - they are useless. You run the risk of hearing unpleasant things or obvious lies. Be content with the fact that he communicates with you, and this is obviously a good sign!
vulgar questions
What to do when you have known each other for a long time and it's time to move on to "spicy topics"? Then these questions will definitely come in handy for you.
- Do you like to watch 18+ films and what kind?
- What size is your penis?
- What was your first sex like? Describe your first sexual partner.
- Funniest incident during lovemaking
- Have you ever been caught by your parents for self-satisfaction?
- How often do you satisfy yourself?
- Kissed a man?
- Tell me about your most extreme sexual experience.
- Did you have a threesome, and if not, did you want to try?
- Did you use the services of a prostitute?
- Have you tried phone sex?
- What is your favorite position?
- Do you give girls oral sex in the bikini area?
- Had sex with a complete stranger?
- What was the longest break in sexual terms?
- Have you ever had nocturnal dreams?
Do not even try to ask these questions at the first communication! In any case, this is a sign of bad upbringing. Communicating in this spirit, you can safely forget about the search for a gentleman who with valor will seek his hand and heart. And remember that not all guys are equally liberated in matters of this nature. Try to find an individual approach to everyone. Good luck!
In the relationship between a guy and a girl, misunderstanding sometimes arises, even if young people have been dating for a long time. One of the most complex facets, which has a lot of nuances, peculiarities and subtleties, is the topic of intimacy.
Girls are sometimes embarrassed to ask something, young people are afraid to offend the chosen one, as a result, both puzzle over, not knowing anything about their partner.
To avoid this, it is important to talk to each other, asking provocative and uncomfortable questions, thanks to the answers you can get to know each other better, understand the preferences of your soul mate.
The fair sex takes a long time to decide on such conversations, after carefully considering their questions. What questions can you ask a guy, how to delicately clarify his preferences in bed, whether it is worth discussing sexual activity with him - and this is not all that worries a girl, but only a small part.
It is best to start with the main thing - to clarify about the previous relationship, their duration and the reason for the breakup. Perhaps if you have not been together for so long, the young man may refuse to answer such questions.
In this case, do not push, he needs time to prepare for such reasoning, or the experiences left over from the previous experience are still disturbing.
Many girlfriends advise to "squeeze" the guy, look on his page in VK ex girlfriend and contact her on her own or threaten to write to her lover in order to squeeze the truth out of him.
What do girls usually ask their chosen ones? There is no exact formula that will help you find out the necessary information and make sure that the guy answers honestly and sincerely. You will have to compose it yourself.
There are topics that are the safest and most generalized, allowing you to get widespread information about a person, and there are more acute and intimate ones that give an idea of \u200b\u200bpersonal life. There are usually no problems with the first type of questions, and such information is clarified during the first stage of the relationship. The second one has some difficulties.
If you definitely decide to ask tricky questions to a guy, then think them over in advance. They should not sound offensive or with a sneer. For example, if you are asking why your lover has not had sexual intercourse before, you should not scoff at his inexperience. And, on the contrary, if he had many girls, you should not expose him as a womanizer and extremely promiscuous in terms of sexual contacts.
The safest way to start a conversation is to ask about preferences. The guy will share his tastes, talk about his favorite fantasies or share his innermost desires that could not be realized before. This will help you get to know your man better, as well as further make his erotic dreams come true.
To help indecisive girls start a tough conversation, we recommend browsing TOP 15 acceptable provocative questions that you can ask your chosen one.
- At what age did you have your first sexual contact?
- How do you like to make love?
- Do you prefer traditional sex or using auxiliary items (toys, costumes)
- What do you think of role playing games?
- What part of the female body is the most erotic for you?
- How do you feel about variety in bed?
- Is there a difference for you between making love and having sex?
- Do you consider yourself vulgar? And if so, why?
- What intimate topics bother you?
- What do you absolutely dislike about sex?
- What things do you consider acceptable in an intimate way, and what things you strictly do not accept?
- What things do you find the sexiest?
- What kind of girls make you excited?
- Can you describe your latest erotic fantasy?
- Tell me about the first girl who made you want to have sex?
You can make up 100 questions that interest you and invite your lover to choose the 20-30 you like the most and answer them. When drafting, remember that the main goal is to get to know each other better, and not to quarrel during the discussion.
A great way to talk and have fun at the same time is the game Truth or Dare?, most likely you have already heard about it or even played with friends.
If it is unfamiliar to you, find the rules on the Internet, fortunately, they are quite simple even for beginners. During the game, you can safely ask interesting questions about relationships, sex and personal preferences, while not forcing the guy to be very nervous because of the seriousness of the conversation.
In the midst of the game, completely at ease, you will find out the most intimate thoughts and get an honest answer to the most uncomfortable and vulgar questions. After all, it's just a game.
Dirty questions for a pen pal
If you are at a distance from each other or are in a relationship by correspondence, you can ask your questions on various social networks: VKontakte, Twitter or Skype when communicating. This will save you unnecessary embarrassment and allow you to bring up topics of interest without a bit of awkwardness during the discussion.
Questions for you
What if the young man decided to start the conversation first and find out all the delicate nuances of the relationship himself? First, answer honestly. This will help you get to know each other better, as well as save you from misunderstandings in the future.
Second, don't be afraid. No matter how difficult questions (maybe even with a trick) he asks, remember that this is not an interrogation with passion, but a confidential conversation between two close people. Your answers will influence future relationships, but should not be a reason for avoidance and ridicule.
Third, tell positive points without focusing on past failures. If in a previous relationship a young man left you without even leaving a letter of apology, expressing some claims, do not rush to accuse the entire male population of infidelity and callousness.
Better specify that the past experience was not the most successful, but now you have a chance to build a full-fledged relationship.
And finally, remember that vulgar questions to a guy or questions addressed to you personally are aimed at studying each other. They are needed to smooth out all the roughness in the relationship, find common ground and build further actions based on preferences, avoiding unpleasant aspects. Good luck!
Mother of two children. I'm leading household for more than 7 years - this is my main job. I like to experiment, I constantly try various means, methods, techniques that can make our life easier, more modern, richer. I love my family.
The psychology of communication is an art. Not everyone knows how to conduct an interesting, relaxed conversation, looking into the eyes of the interlocutor, but live communication is an indispensable attribute of relationships. To avoid mistakes and stupid situations, it is worth preparing a few topics for conversation.
List at the first meeting and the beginning of a relationship
Not every young man knows how to interest a girl from the first minute of meeting. In order to defuse the situation, overcome excitement, create a cheerful or romantic mood, funny or intriguing questions may come up, but not too frank. To get a girl's attention, you can ask:
Questions can be overtly provocative. For example:
- Many would be afraid of you, but I would risk meeting you .... Why were you afraid? Guys are afraid of bright and beautiful girls.
- Why are you looking at me so lustfully?....Do you want my ice cream?
Intriguing questions are also suitable for dating:
- Hello. I know something about you.
- So what are you! And that's how I pictured you.
- Girl, come on, we're already waiting. As where? In that cafe, our coffee was already cold.
Intriguing or provocative questions will spark interest. The most difficult thing is to keep attention and successfully resolve the intrigue.
First date conversations
The first date is one of the most important milestones in a relationship. An easy, lively and entertaining conversation will have a positive effect on the overall impression of the guy, help you learn more about the girl, present yourself in a favorable light, interest and decide whether you want to continue communication. On the first date, you can discuss hobbies or childhood memories.
Original questions can be alternated with banal ones. The main thing is that the conversation helps both participants open up, get to know each other better. The following questions will help build the dialogue:
- Do you like traveling? Where have you been? Where do you want to go, and where do you want to return?
- Were you an obedient girl or a tomboy? Who are you friends with, boys or girls?
- Are you a humanist or a mathematician?
- Who came up with your childhood nickname?
- Most vivid childhood memory?
- Are there people who understand you?
- Do you believe in the theory of halves?
- Whose concert do you want to go to?
- What song would you call your favorite or your motto? What do you listen to when you're sad?
- Cinema or theater? Favorite movie? Favorite performance? What is better - a film adaptation (staging) or a book?
- A movie that you watch over and over again? What movie do you watch when you are sad or happy?
- Do you like clubs? Do you like to dance? Would you like to learn (learn) from a professional?
- Are you ready? Do you have a signature dish?
- Dream of childhood? Do you still dream about it or has everything changed?
- Are you a gamer?
- Will you survive away from civilization?
- Do you have phobias?
- Would you like to try something extreme?
- Do you prefer to act spontaneously or according to a plan?
- Are you superstitious?
- Do you have a signed number or date? Why is it? Is there any story related to this?
- Favorite color and why?
- What will make you completely happy?
- Do you keep a diary?
- Do you have a list of men with whom you will never be together?
- Do you eat when you are busy with household chores?
- Do you have an untapped talent?
- Your most ridiculous carnival costume?
- Where would you like to go on a second date?
Questions can be provocative, leading to frankness:
- How do you feel about change?
- Can you be honest about everything?
- How do you see yourself in a relationship - a partner, a follower, a leader?
- Can you call yourself a feminist?
- What's bothering you?
- What can make you cry?
Forbidden dating topics
Women's psychology is somewhat different from men's, so some questions that are acceptable in a man's company may not please a girl. Do not ask about physical data (age, weight, height). If the girl wants, she will tell about herself.
Inappropriate is the topic of sexual experience. It will be possible to discuss sexual preferences, the number of previous partners and contraceptives later, when the relationship is close enough and trusting. Attitudes towards children and marriage are also better to find out later.
A girl may be alerted by questions about the financial situation, salary, income of her parents. Asking about previous relationships can offend and even repel.
