How to humiliate a person in correspondence. Insults for a guy

Initially, the article was not conceived as a tutorial for losers: offended, humiliated and offended, who secretly or clearly feel sorry for themselves and hate other people, want to take revenge on “everyone” and find out how to humiliate, insult, “send” a person with words, preferably culturally, smartly and beautifully, without a mat.

A wise and harmonious person in the soul cannot be humiliated, insulted and offended (“sent”) with words, because the truth is not offended, and a lie does not deserve attention.

This article is still about how to use the psychological counterattack ( psychological judo, aikido or sambo, if you like), i.e. how to resist insults and humiliation, rudeness and offensive words, how to react (or not react) and how to respond correctly, culturally and beautifully, of course, with words without a mat, to those people with a low I-position who want to humiliate, insult, offend you ... (that is, they want to elevate themselves by humiliating you - they, to put it mildly, without harmony in their souls - they were also humiliated earlier by someone who was stronger than them and to whom they could not correctly answer insults and humiliation, keeping insults in their souls, and now, working them out, they take revenge on others - don't be like them... learn how to communicate without conflict... read this article carefully).

Remember! No one can humiliate, insult or offend a person with words - only he himself, subconsciously interpreting the conflict situation not in his favor. What beliefs and ideas you have about yourself, that is who you are ... and no insulting, insulting and humiliating words can belittle you ... i.e. you belittle yourself by paying attention to the bad words of another person ...

The power of the word, or how to “humiliate”, “insult”, “offend” (“send”) a person with words without a mat

Words in a query how to "humiliate", "insult" and "offend" ("send") a person enclosed in quotation marks, because in reality, we won’t humiliate, insult, or offend anyone ... we won’t “send” either - this is the lot of losers with a negative life scenario and disharmony in the psyche (soul), in which grievances and others are accumulated negative emotions, bursting out in the form of revenge.

These words are used in the article only because there are too many similar requests on the Internet, i.e. a huge number of people have accumulated grievances in themselves and want to vent them (work them out), and without realizing it, drive themselves into a vicious circle of aggression and conflicts, primarily against themselves and with themselves, which in the end will have an extremely negative impact not only on relationships with other people, but also on their own mental health, and on their whole life in general ...

With all this, many want to humiliate, insult and offend a person, “send” him, a man or a woman, a guy or a girl smartly, beautifully, even culturally, and, of course, without a mat ... (apparently, he still “breaks out” ...) . Those. an illusory goal is to get "pleasure", "gloat", to laugh at a humiliated and insulted person who is confused, confused and fell into a stupor at the moment of a psychological counterattack on him - to feel displacement - while not upsetting his moral convictions ("without mate"), and even amusing them ("smart", "cultural", "beautiful" ...).

However, these people do not understand or do not realize that not every laugh prolongs life, and that they will not elevate themselves at all by humiliating and insulting another ... that they, in fact, will become the same as the one they offend, i.e. . disharmonious personalities with an underestimated position in life.
And as you know, everything in the world returns to normal (like this person whom you insulted and humiliated - you “returned”, and you will “return”, if not him, then someone else - such is the nature of life).

How to morally "humiliate" a person with clever words without a mat

Insults, offensive and humiliating words are often perceived as psychological pressure on a person, and therefore as stress. It is known that the negative perception of stress (not stress itself) significantly lowers a person’s intelligence (IQ), and with it rational memory along with vocabulary, so some people begin to speak obscenely - a few words, but how many meanings ... and most importantly - emotions ...

Therefore, in order to morally "humiliate" a person clever words no swearing, first of all, you need to learn how to quickly relieve stress, or calmly treat it.

And if at the moment of a psychological attack on you you remain unperturbed, do not fall into confusion, stupor and stress, feeling like a “victim” of an emotional attack, then you will retain your intellect and the knowledge gained about conflict-free communication and methods of psychological counterattack will “surface”, t .e. you can calmly, intelligently, culturally and beautifully morally “humiliate” a person with clever words without swearing and unnecessary emotions.

How to "insult" a person so that he is silent, without a mat

Often happens in conflict situation so that the opponent incessantly speaks and says something abusive, insulting and humiliating, with appropriate gestures, increased tone, and facial expressions, i.e. exerts psychological pressure, which often leads to stress.
Of course, many want to know how to "offend" a person so that he shuts up(shut up).

Because a conflict or pre-conflict situation presupposes a dialogue, i.e. alternating conversation between two or more people, then you will need psychological counterattack techniques (some psychotherapists and psychoanalysts call this psychological judo, aikido and even sambo).

The essence of psychological counterattack(psychological sambo - self-defense without weapons), as in ordinary, physical martial arts, this is the use of the enemy’s strength against him, with a minimum expenditure of his strength, in this context, mental energy, and not literally offending a person so that he is silent.

Those. here you must first "succumb", as if to "humiliate yourself", "offended", in order to then deliver a psychological counterattack. But not so that your opponent loses and fails, but so that both "win" - otherwise, as mentioned above, everything will return to normal.

For example, if heavy, wet snow presses on a branch, “wanting” to break it, then the branch does not directly resist, does not resist, wasting its strength - it bends, as if humiliated ... gives in down, and the snow under its own weight (“force”) slips off it and does not break the branch.

Also, the sambo wrestler, under physical pressure (attack) on him, uses the inertial force of the enemy, applying the technique throws him over himself and drops him to the ground, while practically not wasting his strength.

Very similar techniques and techniques are used in psychological sambo (psychological counterattack), i.e. in the event of an emotional and psychological attack on you (insult, humiliation, offensive words…), you, as a sambo wrestler, need not to resist and confront directly, but, on the contrary, confusion, a dead end ... (and then he, you can say "your" - control this person and manipulate him as you want) ...

But not for the sake of revenge and gloating over the "offended" opponent, but for the sake of justice, balance (congruence) in relations, and, possibly, for cooperation (to the extreme - compromise) and a way out of the conflict situation.

How to "offend" a person with words

Phrase how to "offend" a person with words, as you already understood, we will use in the context of psychological self-defense (sambo), without exceeding its limits ...

Remember! Each person is responsible for his own thoughts, emotions and behavior, and each mentally healthy man can control his negative feelings, such as resentment, irritation, anger, and the corresponding behavior in the form of defensive aggression, including verbal (verbal) ...

This is easy to check, for example, if a husband gets angry and insults, offends his wife - he seems to be unable to restrain his anger - “bullshit” ... firstly, she is simply initially weaker, secondly, she allows herself to be offended. Most likely, this aggressive husband will hold back the same anger in front of his superiors or the policeman - they are stronger for him and will not allow themselves to be offended - the husband understands this, which means he controls the situation ...

However, the subconscious desire to get rid of internal negatives gives rise to such a protective reaction of the psyche as "Displacement" ("Movement"), which can be expressed in "vicious circle" anger and aggression.
For example, the boss “offended” the husband ... the husband, in order to work out the negative, can offend his wife with words and behavior ... she, in turn, will offend the child ... and he - the domestic dog .... the dog will go for a walk, and there ... the husband’s boss - she is his , for some reason, it will bite ... (this is again to the fact that in life everything returns to normal) ...

Therefore, instead of literally offending a person with words, you can use psychological counterattack techniques (sambo), even if you have a boss or another person who is obviously stronger than you...
("twist the ropes" it is possible from a strict boss and from a despotic husband, and from a tyrant-parent ... but we are not talking about that ... we are talking about psychological self-defense ...).

How beautiful and culturally "send" a person, without a mat

How sometimes you want to “send” (you know where) an annoying partner, an obsessive client, an annoying boyfriend, a stubborn friend, an overly demanding boss, an eternally dissatisfied subordinate ... or another person. But the internal "moral code" and the external "administrative" force one to restrain oneself and suggest thinking how to "send" a person without a mat beautiful and cultural.

To understand how to culturally send a person, in the context of psychological self-defense, i.e. Literally without offending, offending or humiliating him (otherwise he will then take revenge ... maybe not you ... remember about “our own circles”?), we need to proceed from who is in front of us and what result we want from interaction with counterparts.

So, how beautiful it is to "send" a person, based on who is in front of us and what we want from him:

If this is a boss, then we want from him ... probably ... to be less demanding and critical ... or maybe a salary increase ... or the implementation of our idea ...
If this is a subordinate, then, on the contrary, in order to work better and fulfill their duties ... do not “beg” for an increase in salary and in the service ...
If this is a business partner (in business), then, probably, a good trusting and honest cooperation, without "pulling the blanket" on yourself ...
If this is an obsessive girl or boyfriend, then to “fuck off (a)” ...
If a friend, then so that he not only listens and hears himself, but also others ...
If this is a too strict or overprotective parent, then in order to begin to understand his teenage child ...
And if this is a child, ours or whom we are raising, teaching, then to be obedient and diligent, probably ...
If this is a seller, then so that “the leftist does not sell” ...
If a client or a buyer, then in order to buy a product or service ...

We meet many different people in life, many different situations, including conflict situations, can arise in interaction with these people. Our task is not to humiliate and insult a person, with or without a swear word, but to answer correctly and wisely (psychologically counterattack) without harming ourselves and him ...

To clearly and automatically master these techniques of “psychological sambo”, training (practice) is necessary, as in ordinary martial arts ... otherwise, even knowing how to answer, but having entered stress and confusion in a specific conflict situation, you will simply be confused and forget all your knowledge - you need skills, and they are given by practice and practice again ...

Further, you will learn in PRACTICE (with examples from life) how to intelligently and beautifully respond to insult, rudeness, rudeness and humiliation with the help of techniques and techniques of psychological self-defense (counterattack) - this

Now you can beautifully, and most importantly, subtly poke an opponent in a dispute using one of these expressions.
Only aristocrats and people with a fair sense of humor and imagination can insult so beautifully.
So,

How nice to offend the interlocutor.

Any resemblance between you and the person is purely coincidental!

Are you always this stupid, or is today a special occasion?
As an outsider, what do you think of the human race?

I would like to kick you in the teeth, but why should I improve your appearance?
At least there is one positive thing about your body. It's not as scary as your face!
The brain is not everything. And in your case, it's nothing!
Be careful, don't let your brain get into your head!
I like you. They say I have terrible taste, but I love you.
Did your parents ever ask you to run away from home?
If only I had a face like yours. I would sue my parents!
Don't be upset. A lot of people don't have talent either!
No offense, but do you have a job to spread ignorance?
Keep talking, someday you will still be able to say something smart!
Do you still love nature despite what it has done to you?
I don't think so, maybe you have a brain strain!
Fellows like you don't grow on trees, they vacillate there.
He has a mechanical mind. This is bad for him, he often forgets to turn his back to the wind.
His mind is like a steel trap that always closes when trying to find the answer!
You are a man of the earth, bad that is not the best part of it.
He thought, this is something new.
When it finally gets dark, you will surely look better!
Yes, you are just a miracle comedian. If it's funny, it's a miracle!
In Who's Who you should be looked for as What Is It?
You are living proof that a person can live without brains!
He is so short that when it rains, he is always the last to know.
Yes, you're just a template for building an idiot.
Why are you here? I thought the zoo was closing for the night!
How did you get here? Did someone leave the cage open?
Do not try to find anything in your head, it is empty.
I think you wouldn't want to feel the way you look!
Hey! I am human! What do you?
I can't talk to you right now, tell me where will you be in 10 years?
I don't want you to turn the other cheek, it's just ugly.
I don't know who you are, but it would be better if you weren't there, I'm sure everyone will agree with me.
I don't know what makes you stupid, but it really works.
I can drive the monkey out of you, but it will cost you dearly!
I can't remember your name and please don't help me with this!
I don't even like the people you're trying to copy.
I know you were born stupid, but why do you relapse?
I know that you made yourself. It's good that you plead guilty!
I know you are not as stupid as you look. This is impossible!
I saw people like you, but then I had to pay for the ticket!
Why are you such a fool today? Although I think this is typical of you.

But just do not overdo it, even using veiled not direct insults you can get in the face))
By using these insults, you take responsibility for your words.

Phrases to humiliate a person. We should never let people put us down. Know how to always stand up for yourself. Now you can beautifully, and most importantly, subtly pin your opponent in a dispute. The best selection just for you.

Phrases
Humiliating

Compared to you, even asphalt can get an academic degree!
Why weren't you born in Bobruisk?
The mirror doesn't scare you, admit it?
Tell me who I am and I'll tell you how much you underestimated me.
What makes you think that I scare you? Am I a mirror, or what?
Are you always this stupid, or is today a special occasion?
You are not a "mistake of nature", but the result of a long and uninterrupted chain of her creative catastrophes...

Phrases to humiliate a person

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How can you beautifully humiliate a man, a guy with clever words without swearing: phrases, expressions

Offensive phrases

In what cases it may be necessary to offend someone There can be many such situations, and we will consider some of them in more detail. Self-defense When someone allows themselves to speak offensively in our direction, often, we "boil" in response.

Few people manage to restrain their emotions in such a situation and ignore the attacks of an aggressive interlocutor. Of course, if a person has managed to achieve the highest degree of self-control or simply cannot decide on a response offensive remark, then he is able to ignore negative words addressed to him.

Attention

And yet, more often than not, holding back is not easy. Protecting the Weak There are times when we cannot ignore the fact that someone allows himself to be abusive towards another person.

How to insult a person

Options:

Did you accidentally scare Babai as a child?
Oh, apparently you don't know that it's better to be friends with me?
You need to lead a special column that goes to ...
If you don't call me today, then I will call, but not you.
I'm interested in the opinion of those I ask. I didn't ask you
If you want to be rude, go to the trash can, talk to the dogs
You need to have it to go crazy
Don't touch my virtues with your flaws

How to smartly besiege, close your mouth, make a person shut up? How to offend a person to tears? If someone beat you up or does it all the time, don't be discouraged.
Repay the offender with his coin. Options:

When God created men, you were last in line.

Phrases and quotes from various sources

In your case, this is nothing at all. Creating long-term systematic pressure on the enemy Naturally, in this paragraph we are talking about psychological pressure - the influence on the interlocutors, which occurs in order to change their psychological attitudes, decisions and opinions. Often this method is used in situations where, for some reason, you cannot openly be rude to a person, but you are also unable to react to his behavior in any way.
So, what types of psychological pressure exist? Moral pressure It can also be called humiliation, which is expressed in the desire to morally suppress the interlocutor. Systematically, you point out some feature of a person, even if your words are not true.

Thus, you intentionally sow complexes in your opponent.
What phrases to say to a woman or girl:

“Instead of barking like a yard dog, you better go and think about your words and the stupidity with which you pronounce them!”
“Go wash up and wash this idiocy off yourself!”
“I used to think that you were smart, but now I see that you have always been a fool!”
“You must have been the last one in line for the mind!”
“Every time you open your mouth, another portion of slop comes out!”
"You act like you grew up in a brothel!"
“Yes, you have a brain, but not an ounce of intelligence in it!”

How to humiliate and respond to an insult to a person with words without a mat? How to besiege, put a man, a guy, a subordinate in his place with clever words? Very often, people at work completely lack professional ethics and a subordinate can “afford too much” during a conversation with superiors.
The color of your eyes.

I would send you, but I see - you are from there! The ideal answer to the question - how to send a person without a mat and not humiliating!
You can't insult me culturally! But to throw you out of my life is possible!
Didn't you scare Babaika as a child?
I don't know what you eat for breakfast, but it really works, intelligence tends to zero!
Have you specially wetted your blouse (shirt) under your arms?
One you are an amazing person - not everyone can say that ...)))
I see you are literate? so I you now ...

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If he is too sensitive to the slightest hint of insults and overly vulnerable, then, of course, he will not be funny in this situation.

Yes, close your laugher already!
Stop waving your tongue like a parade flag.

Offensive sharp phrases If you want to offend someone with a sharp and offensive phrase, then, apparently, this person really managed to hurt you. Of course, in no case should you show that you are offended or angry - in this case, you will not achieve the desired effect. Speak sharp phrases in a calm tone, which may well be accompanied by a slight smirk.

Looks like the stork dropped someone on the way.

Humiliation 13.07.12 15:32 - Sorry, I'm late. - What happened? - Nothing, I just didn't want to come. Humiliation 13.07.12 15:31 Can we switch to you? And then it’s not convenient for me to give you in the face.
Humiliation 13.07.12 15:30 Are you leaving? Why so slow?! Humiliation 13.07.12 15:30 The light of a floor lamp can overshadow your mind. Humiliation 07/13/12 15:29 I would have sent you, but I see that you are from there.
Humiliation 13.07.12 15:29 Nature has had a nice rest on you! Humiliation 13.07.12 15:28 Yes, beauty won't save the world. Humiliation 07/13/12 03:28 PM I bet you were conceived on a bet! Humiliation 13.07.12 15:27 She didn't get sick.

She always looks like this. Humiliation 07/13/12 15:27 Pay attention - the plinth. And remember, this is your level. Humiliation 13.07.12 15:25 To talk to you on the same level, I have to lie down!..

For example, you can always hint or directly tell someone: “How stupid you are,” “You are very clumsy,” “You still need to lose weight,” and the like. In this case, it becomes difficult for the interlocutor to control himself, and if at first he practically does not pay attention to your words, then later they begin to seriously offend him.

Important

It is important to note that this technique is appropriate to apply to people who suffer from self-doubt. Coercion This method can be used by a person who is endowed with some kind of power - finance, information, or even physical strength. In this case, the opponent is not able to give a worthy rebuff, realizing that in this case he may suffer financially, not receive the necessary information, and so on.

Persuasion This kind of psychological pressure can be called the most rational.
It is simply believed that a person who has "descended" to obscenities is not able to defend his opinion in ordinary words - to some extent, this is how we demonstrate our own inadequacy. Of course, it’s another matter if you, in principle, always communicate with the abundant use of swear words, but this is a completely different conversation. How to learn sarcasm using cheeky funny words By learning to use cheeky and funny expressions appropriately, you will probably be able to gain fame in your inner circle as a person with a good sense of humor and mastering the technique of sarcasm. But it is important not to forget that impudence can be fraught with consequences, and with such phrases you can provoke the interlocutor to an unpredictable reaction.

Go, lie down, rest.

Yes, at least on the rails.

It would be possible to offend you, of course, but nature has already coped for me.
Nobody scares you, you will be scared at the mirror.
Your mouth could use a stapler.
Well, I rang the chain, now go to the booth.

Learning the art of sarcasm And yet, it is important to note that people who know how to express themselves in a sarcastic form do not always use this skill, trying to offend or humiliate someone. Often, sarcasm sounds when some non-trivial situation is commented on - then it looks funny and organic. It is almost impossible to comprehend the art of sarcasm for a person whose vocabulary is not very diverse, and his horizons are rather limited. That is why it is worth reading and learning more. Type in the search: "Authors who write with humor."

How to humiliate a person with clever words is a question that interests many. After all, I really want to put the impudent man in his place so that he himself becomes the subject of ridicule.

How and with what words can a person be humiliated?

In no case should you be like your opponent. Therefore, you should not use rude words and curses. Categorically unacceptable and mat. A witty answer will help a woman emerge victorious from a verbal skirmish. And if nothing comes up right away, then it makes sense to memorize a couple of dozen phrases especially for such cases.

How to competently humiliate and crush a person with words?

but great importance has not only what you say, but also how you do it. A voice breaking into a scream, a snarling intonation are unacceptable for a self-confident woman. Namely, this is how you should look in front of your offender. Those who do not know how to morally humiliate a person with smart words should keep in mind that they should speak calmly, derogatoryly. It would also be appropriate to connect irony or even bright sarcasm.

We all know that one word can hurt, offend and even humiliate a person. In the last century, honor and dignity were very valuable, in order to preserve them, they fought duels. IN modern world it costs nothing to offend and humiliate morally any person. In this article, we will consider what words can humiliate each of us. With the help of humiliation, you can bring a person to great stress. There are times when some people deserve to be treated like this.

Moral humiliation of a person

Humiliation is when a person loses self-esteem in the eyes of other people. This happens for several reasons: for the purpose of educational work or for the self-affirmation of the one who offends. In any case, a person experiences psychological trauma and nervous shock. Everyone who has experienced humiliation in his life will continue to subconsciously try to avoid such an attitude towards himself. This will be an excellent lesson for those who have a high level of selfishness and self-esteem and who do not perceive the opinions of other people.

How can you morally humiliate a person

Most often, moral humiliation and psychological attack occurs in a married couple. When the relationship has reached a certain point, the husband and wife are constantly trying to humiliate and offend as painfully as possible. If partners continually humiliate each other, thereby they increase their self-esteem. Here the problem lies in the internal complexes, in the mental trauma received in childhood, self-doubt, selfishness. Insulting a partner, a person feels his inner strength. But this only indicates the failure and weakness of the offending person.

This applies not only to family people, but also to others who have relatives and relatives. Most of all it is insulting when close people reach insulting, unreasonable humiliations. It is easy to offend a person if you know all his shortcomings.

How to humiliate a man with words

If a woman has such a desire, then she has reached the boiling point. There is an opinion that men are morally weak. Even the confident man any criticism of him can piss him off. Consider the ways in which you can humiliate the representatives of the stronger sex.

First find out his life criteria, his self-esteem. Men are proud that they are males, so you can play on this. Let him know that he does not satisfy you as a man. Someone may be very offended, while others will feel great humiliation. Everything will depend on the situation.
A great way to humiliate a man is to say something mean after a night out. Say that he was not at a high level, such words can deal a serious blow to manhood and even make a guy impotent for a while.
For men, appearance plays a significant role. They are kind to their inflated muscles. Therefore, it is worth saying that the other guy has more pumped up muscles, your partner will grind his teeth in resentment.
Hit on talent and dignity. All men want to be talented in everything, but there is not enough special data. Then constantly tell him about celebrities who at his age have reached all the heights and become popular.
Call him a "mama's boy", a coward, a loser, a mumbler. Your statements will not leave him indifferent.

Methods of verbal humiliation

Let's look at how to humiliate with clever words and more.

All people are like people, and you are a real miscarriage of society.
Your intellect went for a walk and disappeared forever.
Don't blow my mind, go vacuum cacti in the desert.
It's better to leave in English, or I'll send it in other languages.
Don't rustle a leaky bag at me.

Now you know many words that can humiliate a person. Think carefully about whether you need to do this, because the properties of a boomerang can also work. You should learn to forgive and live in harmony with others. Because only in this case you are guaranteed a good mood and positive attitude. By offending others, you will never become stronger and you should not take revenge either. We wish you good luck and wise decisions.