Let's look at such a seemingly simple question a little deeper than we are usually used to. And let's see what men really like in women the most? What do they like or even, more precisely, need and need to receive from a woman?
First, men need and need a woman to sometimes cause them psychological pain..
Take a closer look at those women who have been married for many years (happily or not, it doesn’t matter), to those women who like men and who easily attract and keep men (even if they don’t want marriage) and to those women who don’t can find a man.
If you look closely, you will immediately see an interesting pattern. Those women who cannot find or keep a man are often too soft and insecure in character. And even if they are not soft in principle, then someone inspired them that they need to be soft with men, or love so eclipsed their soul that they became soft.
And vice versa. Those women that men like keep a man for a long time, almost always in one way or another they cause some kind of pain to a man. (In this case, it doesn’t matter if the relationship is happy or not, but since a man has been held for ten years, then there is something in her that a man needs)
They scold them. They make fun of them. Some of them knock straight with a fist. (better to take something heavier)
And of course, at the moment when men do something unpleasant, they do not like it. But in the long run, this is apparently a necessary need for men.
Look at the animal world. There I see something similar. A female dog is often several times weaker than a male dog. But she periodically bites him, barking drives him away from herself or puppies, growls and bites, so what? Never mind. This does not affect the fact that the male was offended and ran away to another.
Somehow they write little about this, that a man needs some kind of physical and psychological pain. They recruit her in power sports, in martial arts, someone in business or something else. But in a relationship, it is also needed.
I hope this is not news to you.
If so, then periodically "drive" the man. Put him in his place if necessary, make fun of him when he flew upstairs in his fantasies, be ironic when he pulls over all the success that was achieved together with you or the team, etc. You can even hit him on the back or shoulder with your fist if he doesn’t want to understand something.
I assure you, the man will not be offended. On the contrary, the relationship will become stronger.
It is clear that some pain threshold cannot be crossed. Otherwise, it will no longer be a shaking of the psyche, but something similar to a shock. But so in principle in any method of communication with men.
And don't tell me to torture men. The same thing can then be said that the child “torments” the woman, when he doesn’t let her sleep, then he gets hysterical, then he doesn’t want to do homework, etc. A child is a woman's need, period. It's the same with men. They have their own needs.
The second thing men need from women is to receive attention and pleasure from them..
You can tell me that I only wrote above to cause pain, and now I am writing about some kind of attention and pleasure.
They are really two sides of the same coin.
Look at almost any game for boys and sometimes even for adult uncles, which gives them great pleasure. Let it be hockey, for example. We begin to watch the game from the point of view of a woman.
A bunch of boys running around on strange devices back and forth, holding a strange stick in their hands. But that's not even the point. They just hurt. They collide with each other at full speed. They often really hit each other. They fall on the ice, which is not so soft at all. They hit each other with pucks and goalkeepers, the blow from which, even with protection, is not at all pleasant. They experience muscle pain, as they need to run somewhere when they are already tired.
And suddenly GOAL! And everything is forgotten. Forgotten pain, forgotten fatigue. They rejoice like five-year-olds who have received a candy. They jump on each other, etc.
It is clear that you cannot compare the relationship between a man and a woman and hockey one-on-one.
But the structure should be similar. A man fights, falls (sometimes with the help of a woman) and suddenly a PRIZE!!! (And sometimes not :)))
And I am writing here not only and not so much about sex, although about it too. This is attention, this is understanding, this is appreciation.
How many women know how to give prizes to men in case of need? I'll say a few of those right now. But if we move on to those girls who have problems keeping men, then there are few of those who do not know how to give out PRIZES.
So, let's talk about how to develop the ability to make prizes for men. I repeat that this is not only supersex, as more prizes are needed.
The first is laughter. Loud, long, pleasant.
This is a real prize, for the sake of which men can often endure some shortcomings in a woman. 
Have you ever seen a girl who can laugh loudly, often and sincerely like a child and who has problems with men? I've seen it, but it's a real rarity.
And the next question, to which you probably already know the answer. Are there women who have put on a mask of unemotionality or criticism of everything and have no problems with men? There probably are, but I haven't seen them.
If a woman does not know how to give out emotions to men, both positive and negative, then tell me how she is fundamentally (for a man, of course) different from a table, for example, or a sofa? You can say that the woman is cooking and washing this ungrateful one, how can you compare.
But both the chair and the sofa also perform important and useful functions. Washing and cooking, with a certain income (not so high), can be replaced by laundry services and the purchase of ready-made food (meals in the canteen, food delivery, etc.)
And who can replace the laughter of a woman? So far, no one has come up with anything similar. Is that a TV or computer. But how far is it from the original.
You can say that "I sometimes smile and even laugh." But here again we come to the difference in the psychology of men and women. Another woman, if your emotions are not too pronounced, will still be able to understand them. The average man understands them 10 times worse. You smiled when he was waiting for delight and he simply did not understand you. (Maybe he was offended, maybe he just didn’t understand that you were happy, etc.
The second is attention..
Super attention, more attention, less attention, or no attention at all. Yes, with the help of such a simple trick, you can make a man bow to a woman. Yes, he will be so attached to you that you will not know what to do with this attachment. (if you want of course)
That is, two skills are needed. The first is to be able to give attention. The second is to have the courage to take it away or show that such a skill is very valuable and if he does not appreciate it, then other men do. (Here weakness in many women. They lack the confidence to take attention away from a man.) 
Showing attention is a whole art that requires quite a lot of time to master. Plus, this thing is not completely universal and it needs to be adjusted to a specific man.
The simplest thing is to sit silently next to you, nodding your head. Some men are so unspoiled by attention that this is enough for them.
But as soon as the girls start to move up the ladder of men, then just sitting there and nodding is not enough. You need to master the general skills of attention (active listening, the ability to ask questions, reformulate, etc.). But you also need to master the industry that the man is talking about, otherwise your questions will be empty and stupid.
On the example of hockey, if you ask questions like “What is hockey?”, “Who is playing today?”, “And who do we support?” etc. are empty questions. It will be moderately interesting for a man to talk about hockey with such a listener. At the very beginning of a relationship, such questions are acceptable, but then the man is not interested.
That is, you need to know who is playing, the rules of the game, how these teams played before, etc. and, of course, experiencing and expressing your emotions about goals, etc.
Of course, hockey is just an example. Nowadays, it is more often some kind of professional knowledge in the area where a man works, knowledge of his environment, the ability to behave in his environment so that the girl and him (the man) are admired. (That is, attention not only to a man, but to his friends, lifestyle).
And now there is a woman who knows how to show attention, knows how to make it less, if necessary. And if the life of a man is not primitive, then mastering such a skill can take a couple of years, or even more. Will another woman, even younger, be able to compete with such a woman?
If she does not make gross mistakes, then it is ridiculous. The forces are not equal.
The third rule is that men like women who don't pay attention to what the man says..
A man is talking to a woman. He does it, of course, it's not just that. (There are exceptions) He wants to get something from a woman. And it's not just sex. He wants sex if possible, but at the same time he does not want to burden himself with any obligations. That is, sex and communication, but without somehow even promising monogamy. Preferably without a hint of marriage. It is even better to do nothing around the house, but to serve it. It's great if everything happens without an official marriage, etc.
And suddenly a MIRACLE. Got a girl who believes his words. (actually, an outright lie)
And then let's go.
"I love you very much". (Instead of the expected "marry me")
“We will live together someday when I do…and more…. And .... "(And I've been doing this for 5 years and I definitely won't finish it for another 15 years. That is, never).
“Now I have all the money gone to pay ...” (Next is a large and snotty list of necessary payments in the form of a bunch of debts, children from ex-wives, saving the unfortunate in Africa, etc.), instead of the gifts, support and care expected by a woman. At the same time, as the girl sees, the man has money, it just goes to “well, very important things,” but they don’t reach her.
And the girl believes and believes these snotty excuses. So a year, two, sometimes five years pass.
The paradox lies in the fact that, on the one hand, a man wants a woman to believe his words, which he utters in order to seduce a woman, convince her of something and for something else.
On the other hand, men like women who don't believe a word he says. J. And they evaluate him by his actions. And they demand from him these same deeds and feats in her honor.
The sad truth of life is that no one respects suckers and suckers, even if they are beautiful and smart.
Often I write that when a woman evaluates men, she should not pay much attention to his words. And this is another truth of life. And the second part of the equation is that women who do not pay attention to the words of a man are much more attracted to men and achieve much more from them. (And in the end, men themselves are happy with such women. Men like just such women)
From time to time I encounter such a phenomenon in trainings and consultations. A man does not do something for a woman that he should have done a long time ago. For example, after 5 years of meetings, offer to get married, sell an expensive car and buy an apartment, since the couple has nowhere to live, stop going to nightclubs with friends.
And usually a significant part of the time is not spent on how to make a man do the obvious things (or perhaps break up with him). No, not at all. I am trying to make out the absurdity of the man’s excuses, which the woman already perceives as her opinion and is trying to convince me during the consultation that he is “poor, unhappy, and that he should be pitied.”
Again, men like women who pay little attention to their words (excuses instead of deeds and blaming a woman instead of doing something himself), but look at the actions that a man does for her. Such women usually also know their interests, do not hesitate to talk about them and, if necessary, push through.
And, accordingly, advice. Analyze several men (former, current, colleagues, relatives) not in terms of what they say, but what they actually do.
The second is to think about what you need in terms of tasks. (Not “live happily with a man”, but “I need gifts, live together in a month, get married in 3 months, if not, then free. I’m not going to spend the rest of my life on you”).
If your man is not an outspoken introvert, from which to draw out his needs is a real problem, then listen to him less. (make him do something, for example)
Understand that when a man speaks, he is promoting his needs, excuses and accusations. (I am extremely happy if your man’s words are compliments to you, questions about your needs, entertainment for you, etc. But I’m afraid if that were the case, then you would not be reading this article.)
Let's sum up, as the article has already grown in volume. Believe me (in my words, not deeds) that men like in women is not at all the same as women like in men. And if you want to please them, it is easy to get them to fulfill their desires, then implement the tips given in the articles. You will immediately understand that they are workers and your life will begin to change and relations with men will improve.
Sincerely, Rashid Kirranov.
Unfortunately, love is a feeling that not everyone submits to. Some women effortlessly make new acquaintances and fall in love with the opposite sex, and some, despite the natural female attractiveness, remain lonely from year to year. If you dream of a family, but new acquaintances again do not lead to anything serious, psychologists advise you to analyze your behavior and communication style with the opposite sex. Perhaps, involuntarily, you behave in such a way that men perceive you as too aggressive, or vice versa, too intrusive woman.
To make it easier for you to navigate the wilds of male preferences, psychologists have identified 10 things that men do not like in women..
So, what repels men in women
1. Obsessive desire to meet
Men love freedom. They will gladly put on strong fetters of love, but only if this happens involuntarily. If they see a woman in front of them, in whose eyes only an obsessive desire to conquer and tame is read, they are unlikely to want to continue their acquaintance. Therefore, despite your fatigue from loneliness, let go of this problem. When meeting a man, do not evaluate him solely as a potential husband and do not try to immediately demonstrate all your best qualities. Be natural. Captivate with your wit, romance or charm.
2. Carelessness
When meeting a girl, a man subconsciously evaluates her as a potential caring wife and mother of his children. Untidy hair, wrinkled clothes and stale manicure will give the impression of you as an unclean person who will not be able to properly care for his family.
3. Angry look
Men want to see a friendly and good-natured wife next to them, ready at any moment to lend a shoulder for support. If you are used to sort things out in a raised voice, under any circumstances to prove your case and emphasize your own importance, he is unlikely to dream of living together with you.
4. Clothes
Very few men follow fashion and understand the peculiarities of women's style, but they pay attention to how harmonious a woman's outfit looks. It is unlikely that they will have a desire to continue acquaintance with a girl dressed in defiant, revealing or, conversely, unkempt clothes. While they will not be able to resist the beauty, who selects stylish and unobtrusive clothes, taking into account the peculiarities of her figure.
5. Modesty
Analyzing what men do not like in women, psychologists have added to this list also, it would seem, an outstanding feminine dignity - modesty. Modesty itself is undoubtedly an adornment, but its overabundance does not make us attractive in the eyes of the opposite sex. Men dream of a chosen one with a light character, next to whom you can relax. If the girl blushes over every ambiguous joke, the man will feel embarrassed.
6. Demonstration of your erudition
Of course, everyone dreams of a smart and educated partner. However, if you retell volumes of scientific books you read to a man and be surprised at the gaps in his knowledge, he will see you not as an object of passion, but as a strict teacher. Psychologists recommend, when communicating with a man, play along with him. Sincerely be surprised at everything he tells you, even if you already knew it in your first year at the institute. But at the same time, do not belittle your knowledge. Discuss your interests and hobbies with him, but do not make a cult out of this.
7. Flattery
When we flatter in order to make a compliment and thereby please a new acquaintance, we must take into account that a man can feel this lie and perceive it as some kind of trick. You should not lie to men, especially on trifles, because, having felt a lie, a man will stop believing in you in the future. Give a compliment only if it is sincere.
8. Excessive talkativeness
Women love to talk, that's a fact. However, on the first date, forget about this love and let your chosen one speak out. In addition to external attractiveness, housekeeping and skill in bed, a man wants his future wife to understand him. Therefore, in order to interest a man, listen to him carefully.
9. Accessibility
A man should not know about your past relationships and love failures. It doesn’t matter how many men you had before meeting your only one, but under no circumstances should you tell him about your past boyfriends. Also, your willingness to have sex with him on the first date can play a bad service in developing a relationship with a man you like. It is possible that passion has visited you and you are sure of your feelings, but a man can perceive such a hasty impulse as availability.
10. Women's Initiative
Men want to conquer, to be conquerors and hunters proud of their rare prey. However, if the prey itself goes into the hands, this destroys the sporting interest, making it less attractive. Women's initiative is good, but not at the first stages of acquaintance. At this time, try to trust your chosen one, gently pushing him to take action.
Having become acquainted with what repels men in women, the most important thing is not to fall into despair, but to calmly and carefully analyze your behavior. Perhaps the wisest advice that psychologists give is the advice to be natural. After all, we all want to be loved exactly as we really are.
Hello dear!
This is Yaroslav Samoilov. Always happy to give you helpful adviceToday I decided to tell you what a man likes in a woman the most.Something that makes him feel needed, strong. That which shows the best masculine qualities in relation to a woman.I'm sure you've always wanted to knowwhat a man loves, with whom you have a relationship, to do to him from time to time pleasant surprises. And if you do not have a relationship, then understand how to behave in the future. I understand your desire, since men by nature are not as open as women. After all, it is difficult to understand what he wants and what he likes if he does not talk about it with you.
Below I will describe 7 things that men likeand about which they will never tell you directly. Most likely you heard about it, thought about it, but never did it. If I, Yaroslav Samoilov, is right, write about it in the comments. I will be pleased.
1. When you put your head on his chest
Everyone men like itfeel needed, protect your values. This is the function that is given by nature. Laying your head on his chest shows that you feel safe in his arms. You are in a position of trust. And as if you are saying “I am calm and safe with you”.
2. When you say you appreciate him
Your man needs you to say directly how much you appreciate him and how important his efforts, successes, victories are for you.
Let him know that his actions make you happy. Even if you don't always understand your man's actions, understand that he is doing the best he can at the moment.
3. When you praise him (particularly in public)
When he does something special, like hosting an impromptu dinner for two under the stars or writing “I love you” on the pavement under your window, he really wants to please you. And how a man needs a reaction - your praise, your recognition for your deeds.
Learn what is most men love when words of gratitude and praise for any of his merits are heard in the presence of other people (preferably acquaintances / friends).
4. When you listen carefully to him
In principle, the need to be listened to is common to both men and women. Agree, it’s rather unpleasant when you talk about some important events for you for half an hour, and then you realize that they listened to you half-heartedly or generally missed everything.
Rest assured, situations like thisdo not like men.So talk less and listen more.
5. When you are affectionate with him
Although most guys try to flaunt their independence and masculinity, we all, without exception, need female affection. And if in childhood we can receive it from our mother, then in adulthood this tenderness can only be given by a beloved woman.
Moreover, you can be affectionate not only alone with him, but also when you are in public places. Show your tenderness through a soft tone in your voice, light touches, hugs, attentiveness. If you are in a cafe, pour him tea from a teapot. Show that you appreciate these moments with him through small actions-manifestations of care.
6. When you play with his hair
Yes, it might sound weird to me. Butmen love it. Stroke his hair, give him a mini scalp massage and you will be pleasantly surprised by his reaction.
7. When you first call or send a message
And yet men like itno less attention than you. Therefore, if you sometimes call first or write SMS just to find out how he is doing, he will be very pleased. Understand that often men are not the first to meet, because they are afraid of rejection. They do not call first because they are not sure that you will even pick up the phone. And if you take the first step, they will be grateful to you.
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I look forward to our meeting.
Yaroslav Samoilov.
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Confidence. Women's self-confidence is an invaluable quality and in most cases comes first in importance, ahead of beauty, intelligence and other virtues.
If a woman is self-confident, she is calm and sexy, knows her own worth, does not seek to ruin a man's life with whining and complaints, it is pleasant to be with her, it is easy and simple to live. Be confident in yourself, go through training if necessary, and undoubtedly, this will greatly increase the chances of creating a happy relationship with a man.
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Emotionality
A woman should not remind with her calmness snow queen. Such equanimity in personal life suggests thoughts of indifference. And this is the last quality a man wants to see in his beloved. Therefore, do not restrain your feelings too much, only, of course, without fanaticism.
A man likes it when he sees that a woman is not indifferent to him. In addition, they believe that a woman who is too unflappable will turn out to be a cold piece of ice in bed.
Courage
Of course, men do not want to see a woman with a saber unsheathed, so that she is like themselves, but modest charms are not in fashion now. A quiet woman in our active and dynamic time can only be attractive to notorious men.
A modern girl may well approach the man she likes herself and in some matters take the initiative into her own hands. You should not, of course, take the liberty of performing male functions such as material support for the family, but as far as personal, loving relationships are concerned, it’s quite.
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Common sense and logic
Women are considered by nature to be devoid of logic, and therefore, perhaps, this quality is especially valued by men, as quite rare. If a woman does not hover in the clouds, she is sober about herself, her man, her career, the birth and upbringing of children, then she will not be alone for a long time.
Rationality and practicality go hand in hand with these qualities. If a woman is logical and soberly looks at life, it is easy for a man to communicate with her, since they themselves are not devoid of logic. But everything should be in moderation. In matters of feelings, sometimes you can discard excessive pragmatism so as not to turn your novel into something too mundane.
frugality
You don't have to be mean to please a man. It's enough just not to be wasteful. If a woman spends money under the influence of stars and horoscopes, or because she had a dream today, then it will be quite difficult for a man to exist with her. After all, he expects that a certain amount of money will be enough for them. And then again - and a woman buys herself unplanned shoes, which, moreover, cost a lot. Of course, a woman has the right to dress up, no one denies this, but large purchases must be made jointly, since they significantly affect the overall family budget.
Kindness
Of course, the fatal beauties are very attractive, but having walked freely with such a “bitch”, and having experienced the whole gamut of feelings with her, a man seeks to create a family with a woman in whose good heart he is sure. A woman who loves to take care and care is always attractive. The attractiveness of this quality goes back to the time of the primitive system and is inherent in human genes.
Decency
Believe me, a man will appreciate it if you don't push him against your wall. unplanned pregnancy forcing to marry. Yes, and in other life situations too.
Honesty
Men, oddly enough, are not fools and may well understand when they are being lied to. Therefore, in the long run, it will be more profitable initially not to lie and not to hide important information. After all, if you didn’t say something, everything can turn out, and trust will already be lost - perhaps irretrievably.
Cleanliness
Just because you don't like cleaning the house doesn't make you a bad person, of course. But all the same, perhaps it is worth getting a housekeeper; their services are not expensive now. The apartment will be in order, you will be rested and happy, and your beloved will be satisfied.
The same applies to appearance. Dressing in cheap stores and not versed in style? It's bad, but not fatal. Much worse if you allow yourself to look sloppy.
No matter what situation you find yourself in, you should always look well-groomed. This is the law!
Read about it in our article.
Sexuality
You want a sexy woman, she beckons, attracts, excites. And to experience such feelings for a man is very important, they give him the strength to move on and conquer new heights in life.
It is not necessary in an attempt to please to put on all the sexiest clothes that were found in the house. High heels, a miniskirt, and a blouse with a huge neckline to boot. Such a set is not always appropriate. All the same, a girl who is confidently standing on her feet and dressed comfortably is much more attractive than her girlfriend dressed up like a stripper.
In addition, men are very fond of when they have room for fantasies. And if you dress in such a way that there is no room for speculation, he becomes uninteresting.
Is it possible to somehow develop sexuality in yourself? What do you need to do to be sexy? Male perspective on this issue:
Cheerful disposition
It is unlikely that any man can like a girl who is always gloomy, dissatisfied with everything in the world, even if she is unusually beautiful. Cheerful laughter, even not so irresistible in appearance, looks much more attractive next to her. Psychology claims that communication with cheerful and cheerful people subconsciously attracts people, and not only guys, but also other girls. And statistics show that optimists achieve more in life than their more beautiful, but more depressed girlfriends.
You should definitely hone your sense of humor, this will help attract your loved one and keep him close, even when you are over forty and your young years are already behind you. To do this, you need to deal with. Learn and memories.
carelessness
Unfortunately, in our country, women are too tense and most of them do not know how to simply enjoy life. From childhood, everyone has a tough setting set by their mother, grandmother, neighbor Aunt Masha - to get married at 20 and give birth urgently to two, ideally three, children.
Flirtatiousness and the ability to flirt
Playfulness in a woman is highly valued. If you want to attract a man, do not be boring and too abstruse. At the beginning of a relationship, it is best to demonstrate an easy and cheerful disposition. Then he will be happy to be around.
Beautiful voice
No need to squeal, speak loudly and in high notes, such sounds are akin to the rattling of a saw. Many men admit that when they hear the sexy voice of radio hosts, they have already drawn their attractive image in their dreams. They even want them already, never having seen, only having heard a voice. And in life, perhaps this radio host may not be attractive at all.
Defenselessness
Don't be too strong. If you can do everything yourself, then why do you need a man nearby. These are the thoughts that come to his mind when he sees that you control absolutely all areas of your life without his help.
At some points, it is perfectly acceptable to call on the help of a loved one to help you out of their troubles, even if in reality this is not too necessary. The desire to patronize and patronize a woman is inherent in a man, so give him such an opportunity. And the fact that you can do everything yourself and even better than him, let only you know this. In addition, by providing a service and helping a woman, a man becomes even more attached to her. Such is the paradox. It seems that you should now feel helpless without him, but the opposite is true. This is because you have given the man what is important to him - a sense of self-worth. In order to experience this inspiring feeling again, he can go to great lengths, overcome various obstacles and problems.
In our article, we have listed only the character traits that attract guys the most. However, this story will not be complete if we do not talk about appearance. What do men pay attention to in the appearance of a girl? What do they like best? What do you need to work on to earn admiring glances? What body part do men like the most? You can find out all this in this video:
It is not difficult to please a man, you should not think too much about it. It is enough to be attractive in appearance, not too tormented by deeds and worries, an interesting interlocutor - this is enough for a start. And let all your other valuable qualities open up over time, and each time they bind it to you even more.
Content
Many women, not knowing what the representatives of the stronger sex like, are worried about the shortcomings of their appearance. However, the views on attractiveness in women and men are often very different. Girls tend to think that young people can only be attracted to external beauty, but according to numerous studies and surveys, this is not at all the case. What do men really like in a woman?
Male psychology in relation to women
It is not uncommon for people in love to encounter many difficulties in relationships, most of these disagreements are associated with a misunderstanding of the differences between female and male psychology. Therefore, for a girl, the only key to building happy family is the awareness of male psychology in relation to the fair sex. The first thing to understand is that men do not like it when a woman behaves intrusively, annoying with calls or following him everywhere. Do not form relationships by being overly assertive. Such behavior is more likely to scare off than give positive results.
The richer your gentleman, the more doubts he has about why the attention of the girl next to him is attracted: is she ready to be with him solely for the sake of material wealth, or is the woman, nevertheless, interested in his personality? He will probably take you to chic establishments and give you expensive gifts, but you may soon find that this man does not trust you or is not ready to build. serious relationship. The only correct behavior in this case will be to limit his spending from the first date.
Men are extremely negative about overly touchy ladies or those of the fair sex who remember all the mistakes and unpleasant episodes that happened to the couple for a long time. A smart woman knows how to forgive. However, this quality is equally necessary to develop in oneself not only for girls, but also for men. Constant reminders of past mistakes or numerous nit-picking can bring any person to a nervous breakdown.
What attracts men to women
Appearance
Every man will tell you that a woman should pay enough attention to her appearance. This does not mean that she should apply tons of cosmetics on her face every day - such “masks”, on the contrary, scare away the representatives of the stronger sex. The girl, first of all, should be well-groomed. A neat manicure, plucked eyebrows, healthy facial skin and a stylish hairstyle - this is the minimum list of what every self-respecting woman should have.
own style
You don't have to follow fashion to stay stylish. Men appreciate the ability to be themselves more in girls, so it’s better to choose clothes and accessories that best suit your appearance, even if these things are not relevant in the coming season. Men consider it attractive if their companion has her own style of dress - this means that such a girl, if necessary, will be able to help her gentleman in the difficult choice of clothes or accessories (tie, watch, glasses).
Figure
Any woman can guess that this quality is important to any representative of the strong half of humanity. And it is not necessary to have a supermodel figure or be too thin to please a man. It is important that the girl monitor her physical form, visiting, if necessary, a fitness room and not be fond of eating pastries. No wonder the topic of diets remains relevant for the fair sex, because a beautiful body will always be appreciated by a husband or boyfriend.
Hair
According to surveys, most men like long hair among women. They even often oppose the desire of girls to make themselves a short haircut. Moreover, hair color is not fundamentally important, there are connoisseurs of any type: both blondes and brunettes or redheads. The main thing is that the girl takes care of her curls, maintaining their healthy and beautiful appearance.
Legs
Many representatives of the stronger sex stare at this part of the female body, especially if nature has awarded the girl with long, slender legs. Although, in order to attract men's glances with a length “from the ears”, it is not necessary to possess. It is important to have well-groomed, smooth legs and wear skirts more often to demonstrate this beauty.
Smile
The best way to attract male attention is a simple smile. With such a non-verbal signal, a woman shows her sympathy and that she is pleased with the company of a nearby man. A smile transforms any appearance, so if you smile more often, the attention of the stronger sex is guaranteed to you.
Voice
Some women know how to change the timbre of the voice, communicating with attractive men. They know that many members of the stronger sex fall for such a trick. A few phrases uttered in a gentle whisper, and male interest in you will increase dramatically.
Eyes
Just one female look is able to strike a man on the spot and fall in love with yourself. It is possible to make the eyes as expressive as possible and emphasize their beauty with the help of such means as eyeliner, shadows, mascara or pencil.
What qualities of women attract men
Sincerity
Not many people remember this character trait, and even fewer women use it. Often the motive for deception is the girl's desire to appear better than she really is. However, hiding their true thoughts and feelings, it is not uncommon for women to look stupid, and this scares off many of the stronger sex. Despite the stereotype, men are not afraid of smart women, but rather respect and love to communicate with them. Do not be afraid to voice your honest opinion, this is the only way to become an interesting conversationalist, and successful men really appreciate this in girls.
Positivity
Even with model appearance, but feeling unhappy, the girl is likely to be avoided by potential gentlemen. happy women have the ability to attract, they seem to radiate special vibes that men like so much. No one will make you happy until you yourself become her, and then, most likely, there will be a prince who cannot pass by such a cheerful girl.
Mysteriousness
A woman who has shown all her virtues, like a read book, ceases to be interesting in men's eyes. But the representatives of the stronger sex like to solve cute female secrets. However, it should be understood that being mysterious does not mean lying or keeping silent about something important to your spouse or gentleman. Mysteriousness manifests itself differently: in self-sufficiency, in a slight smile, in the ability to choose slightly provocative outfits and say cute pranks in the ear of a loved one.
Sexuality
Sex is an important part of any healthy relationship, and being relaxed in bed is worth a lot. The maximum male pleasure lies in his ability to please a girl. Many women know that the stronger they get an orgasm, the more pleasant their partner is, because he managed to give you such pleasure, which confirms it. male power. However, do not forget about the sincerity, which was mentioned above, so you should not imitate in bed. Sooner or later, a man will find out about your simulation and then it will be extremely difficult to restore trust.
Sense of humor
Not every girl can boast of wit. Moreover, all people have a different sense of humor, so it is important that a woman understands the jokes of her man. If young man managed to find a girl who is able to make him laugh, he is unlikely to miss this option. However, you should not pretend, because falsehood is always noticeable, and a feigned laugh will only cause disappointment for your gentleman.
Ability to be yourself
Often girls strive to be better in order to make the beloved man next to them comfortable and easy. However, this desire, as a rule, causes the opposite effect - tired of excessive care, the man leaves. This is natural, because any representative of the stronger sex sooner or later gets sick of cloying. Guys love peppercorns in girls and are ready to turn a blind eye to the periodic bitchiness of their chosen one, but you shouldn’t overdo it either.
sensitivity
V Lately fewer and fewer women can be called empathetic. We are less likely to show compassion for other people, ignoring their problems. Every day, unpleasant situations happen to those around us and our loved ones, in which we could be more sensitive. Women should not be afraid to show their sincere feelings, any man will protect and take care of such a companion. After all, there is nothing more valuable if the other person feels and understands you as if he is a half of you.
Feeling grateful
Everyone needs gratitude, especially men. They are used to solving any problems, taking responsibility for the material well-being of the family, but this is rarely appreciated. Even though this is the norm, a woman should not be silent - tell your man that he is the best, prove how much you appreciate his efforts. If a girl nearby does not appreciate the efforts of a man, then sooner or later even a married man will think about whether he connected his life with the right woman.
